ANSWERS: 6
  • From all I know of psychology, it is entirely possible. Attraction isn't something that is either there or isn't. There are varying levels of attraction and many many different forces at play that make you attracted to him in the first place. Your anger could have easily caused your attraction to fade. But if this worries you, think of the things about him that attracted you in the first place. That should help.
  • It's not so much a matter of you being attracted to him. Rather, because you were angry with him, you did not feel the closeness and intimacy with him that would normaly make you want to kiss him. ...And from personal experience, this CAN happen. I don't think you ever stopped loving him, or stopped feeling attracted to him for any length of time. More likely, your defenses were up when you were mad, and as part of that defense you didn't desire to kiss him (an act that VERY MUCH makes you let down your defenses.
  • anger blocks love. did he know you felt angry at him? it would have been important jsut to say the words 'I feel angry at you for...'
  • absolutely. Hurt and anger are the opposite of love.
  • Absolutely. I have been very attracted to a girl before and then 10 minutes later thought that she was a hideous person because I was pissed off at her.
  • Very much so. One does have rather a emotional see-saw existence when one is in love. Sometimes, the line between love and the opposite seems very fine. But, where would we be without it? *Sigh*

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