Men and women's opinions please, do you think it's nice if a man says he 'likes your curves' to a woman?
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ANSWERS: 24
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It can be a compliment of sorts. The intention with which he said it is what is really important to me.
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It really depends on how the guy would say it I guess. I would probably be slapped if I walked up to some random person and said it or worse if they had a guy friend with them I might be on the ground. I can saw it to my girlfriend and she just laughs and likes it because she understands what I mean when I say that.
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It's always struck me as a bit odd, but if a woman is particularly proud of 'her curves', and the man knows this, then it could be a nice thing to say : P Also, the reason they say it is important, if for example they say it because they mean they find you sexually attractive it might be a fairly awkward/inappropriate thing to say unless you're very familiar with each other already, in which case I'm not sure it really needs to be said... *shrugs*
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I guess it depends on how he says it. I know I'd feel good because I am curvey! LOL But if he said it wrong it might hurt me feelings.
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I guess it depends on how he says it. I know I'd feel good because I am curvey! LOL But if he said it wrong it might hurt me feelings.
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Not if that's all he says. But if it's just an offhand polite compliment, then it sounds fine.
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Yes.. as long as its said sincerely. Just about anytime a man goes out his way to compliment a woman and say something nice is ok with me..
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It's flattering.
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It's a chat up line, or a flirt. It means "I recognise that you are a woman and I like what I see".
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if in a good sense oh yes!why not?
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it depends on how the comment is said and how the receiver takes it. If he says you got nice curves it could just be a simple compliment if he says YOU GOT NICE CURVES heh heh more than likely there is more intent behind it than just a compliment. But again it is all in how the recepient perceives the comment.
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Would a man think it was nice if a woman said it to him?
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The rule of thumb for what is appropriate for a man to say to a woman acquaintance: would he say the same thing to another man? If the answer is no...because he is likely to get a punch from the other man...then it isn't appropriate to say it to a woman either. Examples of appropriate: "You look really nice...like that shirt" "Your hair really flatters you like that" Examples of Inappropriate: "You have a killer butt" "I can see your pantyline" "You are grumpy today...are you on the rag?"
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Normally, it is a nice compliment, I would say. But some people are sarcastic.
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I think a big problem is how men and woman see a simple comment diffrently. Boy wouldn't it be nice if men and woman could see things the same way. http://www.shesrighthesright.com
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Definately, curves are hot to men, whether she is skinny or fat, she should have curves, usually its said to bigger women, and as a bigger woman, I've heard it alot, the only reason you may see it as rude is that it is a sexual come on. I feel flattered by any compliment, whether they come from a sexy or ugly man/woman, and whether I want him/her or not. as long as I know I'm still wanted :)
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What this person is really telling you is......... "I would like to have a roll in the hay with you". Some men cannot keep their sexual feelings to themselves.
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I don't think its bad, I wouldn't say that. You have to see what else he talks about, I drop a compliment to a girl's looks once in while, but if that is all he talks about I think that is not good.
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coming from a woman who has curves, I would say its a great compliment to a woman.
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oh yeah. A woman's curves is what makes our bodies differant from men. We have breasts and bigger hips both needed to carry children. Thats attractive to men, whether they want children. It is our human and natural animal instinct to find a mate and breed.
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Generally speaking, NO! I am a woman and I love my womanly body but when I hear curves I think it's a polite way of saying that you're ok with me being bigger than a super skinny chick. That sounds kinda weird but most women are self-conscious regarding weight and mentioning curves may cause them to direct their attention from you to thinking about their body! That's just how I feel... I much prefer my man mentioning that he thinks that I am breathtaking or amazingly beautiful rather than being specific regarding my boobs or my butt or my curves in general!
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Actually the man is appreciating that womans womanhood!Curves is one of the striking boon for a beautiful body!!Curves alone, gave woman it's sensuous figure as will as femininity!!I just love to say something like this to my lady!!
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in my opinion, yeah, take it as a compliment.
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It's nice if they have a close relationship or the man knows the woman VERY VERY well. Otherwise, that statement could easily be interpreted as "sexual harassment".
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