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Because he is controlling and manipulative. He doesn't want to share you and expects you to dress like he owns you. If he doesn't accept the fact that you deserve to dress as you want, I'm afraid, unless you want to suffer, you need to leave him.
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This is a tactic guys sometimes use to control their girlfriend. I would sit him down and tell him how you feel. And if he does not listen than I might reconsider the relationship.
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It is not what you wear that he has the issue with. I qam willing to bet if you wore those things just in the house with him he would have absolutely no problem with it. What he does have a problem with and you are failing to see here is he doesn't like other guuys looking at his woman as most guys are going to look at a pretty girl who dresses showy and some guys will even go as far as to make comments. He probably knows if something like that were to happen he would go ballistic on the guy and want to kick his ass in for disrespecting not only you but him for the guy having the nerve to be checking out his woman. If you feel that this is a problem for you then you need to dump him and find a guy who is secure enough in your love for him that he won't care if other guys look at you or make comments because he knows at the end of the day it is him you are going home with. I hope that made sense to you.
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At 17 you have your parents still telling you what to do...you certainly don't need him telling you what you can wear. Learn to be assertive and don't let any boy/man tell you how to run your life.
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I pretty much agree with everyone...another thing to add is that you shouldn't even have to worry about things like this at your age. EVERY 17 yr. old wears shorts & if he has a problem with it, you shouldn't have to convince him, dump him. Sorry too for being so matter-of-fact. You don't ever want a guy/man telling you what to do.
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Controlling boyfriend? I'm going to have to warn you to stay clear of them...You are 17! There is so much out there that you haven't even seen yet. Don't settle for somebody who goes as far as telling you to not wear shorts, because they are too revealing. Who cares!!! You are young, so flaunt it! I'm not saying you should dress provacative, i just think you should be able to wear what you think is appropriate. Before you give up on the relationship, if you really like this guy, try to talk to him about it first. If he thinks he's being normal, then you need to rethink everything. From experience, I can tell you one thing, don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Don't let anybody tell you what to be...and honestly, clothing is an expression. Express yourself!
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