If you were totally obsessed over someone of the same sex, like thinking about him/her the whole day,(and this goes on for a number of months) would that be considered love? but you know you two are good friends and you are straight.
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If you are obsessing over someone of the same sex, you might want to consider the fact that you may not be straight. No, I wouldn't call that love, I'd call it an obsession or an infatuation.
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Depends on your age....if you are pre- or early teen then this type of obsession or crush is common and normal...and it does NOT reflect necessarily on your sexual orientation. Test it out by spending more and more time away from this friend....and with others. Don't fret about it too much....hormones do weird things to kids....and ewventually things get sorted out naturally.
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It matters how you feel about them, and how much you are obsessed with them (more than just time). You have to be the judge. To me the line is drawn where you get jealous when they hang out with other people and when you take there stuff. (I'm Bisexual). Remember it's up to you, and nothing is final
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Obsessing over someone does not indicate a sexual preference, but it may indicate other factors to consider. I even consider same-sex attraction is different from sexual preference. Although I am heterosexual there have been times in my life that I have thought a lot about my same-sex friends. Sometimes it is because I know them really well, talk to them a lot, and do a lot of activities together. We share life. That does not mean I want a sexual relationship with them. Is it love? Sure. You can love someone of the same sex very much without being homosexual. If you are sexually obsessing over them, you may have other contributing factors such as the lack of healthy same-sex relationships from the past or present. Our emotions and thoughts are not always rational; by no means are they rational.
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