Being in love is being in love with your self! true or false? you love the way that person makes you feel thats why you love them, when you don't love them is when you don't feel happy anymore with them. so its got nothing to do with them, its all about u
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Of course you feel happy for yourself, everybody looks for that feeling. When you truly love IT IS about them as well.
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standard 10th grade health/sex ed teachers would say you are talking about infatuation not love lol. I think being happy is good when it comes to love, but just cause you love someone doesn't mean you will always be happy with them some people make you feel terrible but you keep loving them anyway.
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true how can u love someone and u don,t love yourself
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Everything you do starts with what makes you feel good. However, when you love someone, that good feeling is inextricably tied to how they are... when they change, you must respond somehow, or you will lose that good feeling! So they do matter, even though it is about your feeling. Infatuation, on the other hand, is largely blind to the other person... there are just a few things about them that you love, and you couldn't care less about the rest. If you get to know them well, the infatuation will be replaced maybe with love, maybe with something else.
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False. The statement/question is a straw man argument the way you have laid it out. Loving yourself, and being OK with it, is a prerequisite to truly loving someone else-- AND LETTING THEM LOVE YOU BACK, in my (and many other people's) opinion.
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Your are speaking about infatuation, true love is something entirely different. True love, is when you would sacrifice yourself for someone, even if they don't love you, or even hate you. True love, is unconditional, and does not falter simply because someone makes small changes to themselves, or seemingly becomes a different person. True love, is loving someone MORE than yourself.
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