As long as you're okay with it, go ahead. Just remember you MAY and probably are in very different stages of your life so if you do get involved, you will have to make sure you two can respect that.

You're single, he's (supposedly) single, you're both over 18, I say go for it. You'll no doubt get funny looks when you go out from people who think he's your dad or something, but if that doesn't bother you who cares.

I'd still talk to him, but keep in mind that is a HUGE age difference.

If you are attracted to a man old enough to be your grand-father, go for it. Sorry, I am 42 and I don't think I would be after a 56 year old guy unless I was very down on my luck.

What's his marriage status? If I were you I'd be giving him a wide berth...

talking to him is fine and what do you mean by you've come to like him if you mean you have a roamntic interest in the guy first you need to know if the guy is single if he is and you can deal with all the issues that can come from a relationship with someone that much older than you then I see no problem with itbut you might also want to find out first what kind of interest he has in you maybe he just thinks of you as a nice hot young piece and is just looking to get in your pants in that case don't waste your time with the loser you deserve better than someone who just wants you for sex and I am not saying that is all the interest he has in you there could be other reasons he is interested too but it the flirting includes alot of comments about your body the way you dress or there are questions about what you like sexualkly this would be a big clue that he is only out to get into your pants and is not worthy of your time If your interest in this guy is strictly a friendly one make sure you are perfectly cl;ear about that and let him know directly that while you think he is a great guy you don't want to pursue anything romantic or sexual with him almost forgot the most important thing find out if the guy is married or in a comitted relationship if so keep away from him

he's a little old dont'cha think? =\ just my thoughts anyways.

You are just saying "talking with him" not actually starting a relationship so answering that way alone would only be jumping to conclusions. You can still talk with him even be friends if you are talking about a relationship I guess you want opinions(which don't mean much), I think its a little strange. Age is not much when it comes to a relation though, as long as you two are happy. - Does he have $$$?(Ok don't take that personal it was just a joke.)

I wouldn't let my daughters near him. Talking is fine. I would not suggest having children with him in case the children are girls. I have heard that 50 is the new 30, not that 18 is the new 56.

Let me be the voice of reason here. Talking to him is fine and you can be work friends. However, anything more, is not OK. With respect you are 18 and although you can make your own decisions, the age gap (with regard to romance) is simply too great. What will you have in common? Be aware that from if we look at your relationship from his 'side of the fence' then there is something very abnormal about it. You see, a 56 year old man would normally look at an 18 year old young woman as a child - you could be his grandaughter afterall. This is not right morally or ethically. He should not have any romantic interest in one so young, let alone have anything to talk about. He is old enough to know better and most people would not approve of him pursuing this relationship. Unfortunately, at 18 you simply have not been around long enough to fully appreciate this (and I mean this with the greatest respect). He may seem charming and very knowledgeable to you, indeed he may appear so much more of a man than the guys of your own age who might seem immature and childish in comparison. At 18, this is a normal way to feel & you are not at fault. He however, is very much at fault. I really do not want to lecture and preach to you but I would suggest that you stay away from this man. Please do not divulge information or confide in him over the break-up with your boyfriend. Do not discuss intimate details or let the friendship develop any further than it has already. Please do not 'date' him or have any romantic involvement. Please do not go over to his house even if it is just as friends - his intentions may well be very different than yours. If you want another opinion on this, tell your Mum or Dad about it and ask what they think. Ask your Dad, what he thinks and if he can explain why a 56 year old man should not have any interest in a young woman of your age. Please, stay away from this man and keep conversation to nothing more than a 'good morning' as you walk past. I cannot emphasise just how seriously I mean this. You have the world at your feet at 18 years old, do not let this old man take that away from you - you deserve much, much better. Talk to Mum & Dad about it - they have your best interests at heart and while you do not know if I am telling you the truth, you can trust them.

I'd honestly say that there is VERY little that you and a 56 year old man could possibly have in common. My boyfriend is almost 7 years younger then me but you're talking about a 38 year age difference. You're still young and this man should know better. I'm sorry if that's not what you'd like to hear but there are SOOO many wonderful guys out there. If you like older guys go from someone under the age of 30! I'm sure you'll find you have lots more in common. Either way I wish you much luck in whatever you decide.