Does it really matter if you sleep with a guy onthe first date or the 5th, if it's all the same anyway?
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Nellie Wise Gamgee
ANSWERS: 15
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I would not say it would make much difference,and with todays society who's counting.
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I think it makes a difference...you are going to be more comfortable by date 5...that will make a difference how you feel during the act and the next day.
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Sex on the first date sets a precedent- it becomes an expected reason to get together. If you wait awhile, at least you have something to look forward to on that 5th date (or whenever).
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if its just sex ...no ..anytime is good ...its when do you decide to make love with the guy .
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Well if you sleep with a guy within the first 24 hours, it would lessen the value of sex. Make sense?
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Are you dating or hooking up?
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I have always been really puzzled by the no "sleeping" or "kissing" or whatever on the first date. Lots of times girls have wanted to do something, felt good about it, but some code prevented it? That makes NO sense. I think its always a case-by-case. I don't think its good to sleep with EVERYBODY on a first date, but when the timing is perfect. Yahoo!
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some guys loose respect for you if you sleep with them on the first night rather than later after you know them better
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You know a lot more by the 5th date than the 1st. If you're at all particular about what you wear (put on your body), surely you'd be particular about what goes in your body?
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Its a big deal if you expect the guy to take you seriously. If you want something long term take it slow.
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It seems to with the male gender. They like to work for what they get, I think.
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It doesn't matter to me. But if a guy is going to be that shallow, than I wouldn't want to sleep with him after 100 dates! I think if the guy really cares about you he would be willing to wait for as long as it takes.
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Well, if a girl's going to be so easy as to sleep with a guy on the 5th date (or any time before the wedding night) then why not throw all pretense aside and just have sex as soon as you can get a room. As you say, "it's all the same anyway."
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Believe it or not some guys like the chase...giving it up to early could put you in a bad light to that type.
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If it is all the same to both of you, then it doesn't really matter. It depends on what the both of you are comfortable with.
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