I am 22 years old and I have only been on 3 dates. It is very hard for me to ask girls on dates because a couple have said no and so it ruins my confidence, what can I do to be better at dating?
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Nate the Great
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I think you should quit, you sound like quite a jerk to me. I don't think you have a chance of getting any girls if you have only been on three dates
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I was in the same boat, if not a worse one. What's really important is to like yourself, so, honestly, it sounds woo-woo but you should WRITE OUT ON PAPER and often focus on your good qualities. If there are any negatives, write out on paper the steps you're going to follow to improve on these. What gave me self-confidence was to realize that I was very good at certain things - it took me a long time to realize that I had the de facto attitude that I wasn't good at anything. Adopt hobbies, including something physical like running, cycling, or Tae Kwon Do to increase physical confidence, which carries over into all encounters. Join clubs or volunteer to increase the chances of meeting somebody. Be friendly.
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Man look it like this I don't have this problem so I figure I could help you out a little it all about confidence if you have that and it's real women see that in a man don't be cocky they hate to much of that and always always always be yourself don't try to be someone your not also women like humor but not to much where it's annoying hope this help you out
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Try to talk to women in situations where all of your confidence is not on the line. Practice. Strike up conversations with store clerks, waiting in line for something, activites you go to, older women, younger women etc., etc. Then you can learn what works and what doesn't. Read up on how to improve your appearance. Make sure your grooming is good. Don't ask women who you are threatened by on dates. Pick someone you feel easy and comfortable with. Good luck!
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You've got to stop thinking of them as girls and start thinking of them as people. Once you can do that you'll be able to relax and just have ordinary conversation. I think you need to have built up some sort of rapport by talking to them before suggesting a date.
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It happens to everyone; don't give up. What would you think if she says yes, but you never asked her?
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Talk to women you don't want to date. Talk to them because they are fun or interesting. Apply what you've learned to all women.
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Believe me, your problems are going to start when the girls start saying yes to you! Enjoy your age and don't hesitate, it's just keep on practicing.
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Also a way to see if they will date you, give them a complement and if they act discusted then no. if they are just normal then maybe and if happy than mostlikley yes! Any way keep up your confidence dont worry!!! ITS SO NORMAL!
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Just ask the girls you want but know before hand that if they say no right away that they are no the kind of girl you are going to want to date anyway.
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Date like there is no tomorrow!
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Say hi to every girl you see.
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Just talk to girls for the heck of it, just to chat with no expectations. Remember that they should be vying for YOUR attention. Eventually you'll find another you'll want to ask out. She might say no. And so frigging what? Suppose you were training as a boxer. Would you give up the first time you got hit in the head? Of course not... you keep training and sparring until you get it right. Getting hit is PART of boxing, and getting rejected is PART of dating, and it's no big deal. After a lot of rejections, you start not to care, and you become FEARLESS. Celebrate your rejections... you are on your way to becoming a badass with a strong mind.
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not letting it affect you. Do realize you are 22 only...you have about 60+ more years to date girls.
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Don't feel pressure to date just because everyone else is doing it-But the oldest trick in the book,if you DO want to persue A personal romantic relationship is to BE YOURSELF! If they don't like you for who you are,then they're not good for you anyway*Good Luck!*
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