If you found out that you are pregnant a few weeks after your b/f left you would you call him to let him know?
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Yes. If he's the father, he has the right to know.
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Absolutely! His response might surprise you, in a good way. At least you'd know you did the right thing by giving him a chance to participate in the child's life. You would be doing it for the child.
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No, you don't want him returning to you just because of a child
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Yes, he's the parent to be too and has as much responsibility and right as you. Now, WHY are you asking.. is this you by any chance?!
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It depends on why we broke up. If he was beating me, or hurt one of my friends, I probably wouldn't want him to know, because he might come hurt me or the child. Otherwise, even if we broke up under horrible circumstances like cheating or a screaming match, I would probably tell him.
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It would depend on whether I was planning to go ahead with the pregnancy or not. If not, then there would be no reason to let him or anyone else know.(what you don't know can't hurt you) However, if my decision were to have the baby, I would let him know - he would have the right to know he was a father.
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I'm a male and I would like to know
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Any parent has a right to know, and the child has a right to 2 parents, even if they're not together. But I'd wait till I was ready with the right words to say.
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I think it might depend on how we broke up and why. If he was abusive and a horrid person, an addict or self0destructive, I might wait awhile to tell him because I would not want him in my life right now. I may not be able to deal with him during the pregnancy. But I do think he should be told at some point, unless I make a total commitment that he would never have anything to do with the child and that I will be okay with explaining to the child my reasons.
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Yes. It is his child, too. How you work it out after that is another matter, but he has the right to know, to contribute to the childs welfare and the child has a right to know that he/she has a father, and who he is.
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You betcha!
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Um...I did. We didn't break up on the best of terms. He asked how I could possibly know it was his, implying I was a total slut. He said after I give birth he'll pay for a paternity test. Total scum.
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