It's very likely for him to cheat and maybe he is watching it behind your back therefore you don't know and think he's watching it less. But all in all you would know and notice signs if he were to start cheating again. Listen to your gut. Until he proves to you that you can fully trust him.

Once a cheater always a cheater- and porn defianetly doesn't help the situation.

Past behavior is a very good indication of current and future behavior *unless* you and your husband have seen someone professionally, so you can get to the bottom of his porn addiction as well as his infidelity. Wisen up, get some backbone, and get help for yourself or ask him to go with you. You are putting yourself through ALOT of stress and grief when you could be getting help -- from a professional. And if your husband will not listen to you or cooperate, then get OUT, (or show HIM the door) and start over with someone who will respect you and who will honor his marriage vows.

He watches porn because he's a man with a sexual appetite that porn satisfies. It has nothing to do with him cheating. Cheating happens for many reasons, like maybe he like the thrill of doing something naughty, the possibility of benig caught, his lack of love or commitment, his "real life" sexual urges not being fulfill, him wanting to experiment without judgement from you, and on and on... It could be ANY reason... but porn and cheating DO NOT go hand in hand.

Watching porn and cheating I'm sure were not in your marriage vows. If I found out my husband was watching porn behind my back, I would be absolutley outraged. You should be his number one woman in his life...NOT some skank on a porno movie!!

I suspected my husband was going onto porn sites a few weeks after I had bought him a computer for his birthday.He would always click the site off when I walked into the room. It wasn't the fact that he was doing it but the fact that he was being deceitful and denying it.My eldest son found some pictures off him posing with his shirt off like he- man that he had downloaded onto his site.The situation escalated and I am now divorcing him because he actually went and committed adultery and I became scared of this man that I had loved and trusted enough to marry.The woman he slept was not an internet aquaintance but just someone who happened to be available.He is devastated because he has lost me and everything.I doubt that the porn caused him to cheat but rather the man himself who would probably have cheated anyway.

Porn encourages sex, period. Your husband didn't cheat on you because of porn, he cheated on you because he's the kind of guy that cheats on his wife. Plenty of faithful dudes watch porn. It gets you antsie, but it's up to the person to determine who they unleash it on. If he were watching porn and getting turned on just for you, it would most likely stimulate your sex life and it wouldn't bother you so much. I will say this though. One thing porn DOES do in excess, however, is indirectly condition male viewers to perceive women as less than individuals and more as sex objects. I mean I'll be honest, there was a time I would watch porn in excessive amounts, and I began to notice that I had lest patience with women in general. It took awhile but I eventually realized that the two were connected. My theory is that watching pornography in excessive amounts touches upon a primitive element within men, we begin to hold a certain level of unconscious resentment toward females due to the perpetual observation of them allowing OTHER men use them for sex. During the course of human evolution, seeing this meant only one thing: He is being given reproductive opportunity, and I am not. Constant bombardment of this kind of material could manifest into a mild case of misogyny. So independent of your marital issues, he should cut back on the porn in general. Porn is perfectly ok. But just like anything else, it must be taken in moderation. Too much of anything is bad for you.

It's great that he watches it less, but porn is as addictive to a man as any other addiction. If you keep heating the water eventually it's gonna boil. Unless you and he are doing the porn thing together, (not that I'm recommending that), he is getting used to imagining having sex with other women. Never a good thing!!

Yes, yes and yes. Sex is the one thing you only share with each other. Watching porn encourages him to see other women in the same light he should be saving for you.

being a cheat is generally caused by being a cheat not by porn. i know many people who are completely faithful and watch porn, some of them even watch it together!

Porn does encourage cheating and the fact that he's already cheated makes him a good candidate for the boot. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Not only that, the fact that you took him back after he cheated on you once teaches him it's okay for him to cheat on you. So he will do it again.

Porn, in and of itself, does NOT cause or encourage cheating. It may STOP him from cheating, especially if he can bring his desire from it to you, or he ... "handles it himself" ... if/when you're not willing or able. Of course, it's ALWAYS possible he could cheat again, but porn didn't cause it (unless, of course, you are unwilling to do some of the more mundane acts, and he feels a STRONG desire to try it, at least once.) THIS is the ONLY way porn would have anything to do with cheating.

Girl, im having the same problem except my husband has not cheated on me that I have known of! My husband hides that he watches porn and I always seem to find out! I feel that watching another woman naked or shake there shit in front of them is cheating! He shouldn't be watching another girl like that! Its not right! ITs just not right! I know how you are feeling but in a smaller claim! Good luck to you girl.... Get out of the relationship and get on with life! You dont need the stress of always wondering what he is doing and what he shouldn't be doing! Give it up! It takes one to get over one!

One who has had the low morality to cheat before, is definitely more likely to cheat again, than one who has never cheated. I don't think porn has anything to do with it, minus the constant ability to be turned on by someone other than you. Good luck.

YES! pornography (adultery) leads to more cheating/adultery. Guaranteed. I've lived with it for over 25 years and it never went away. He lusts and visually has sex with every half decent woman he sees even while with me. It ruins marrianges, has ruined mine. Theirs no reason to be married to someone if you're going to look at naked women (porn). Stay single. and screw your way all the way to HELL! Where you deserve to be. Matter of fact screw SATAN while you're there.

Porn probably can cause infidelity, depending on the intentions of the viewer. I know it's hard to trust a cheater again after he's cheated, but if you love him and stay with him, you've got to accept that he's human. He has a weakness that he hopefully isn't proud of, and if he avoids the temptations that made him fall before, he hopefully should be fine.

No its not like that... You have and maintain a very sexy relation with him by standing in nude in front him for more time that will completely change him to your path...

Oh, yes, once a cheater, always a cheater especially if he is still watching porn. Porn will encourage infidelity.

Well, my man stopped watching porn since he met me, of course I'm good enough to keep his eyes off porn, lol.