ANSWERS: 8
  • You wanted to know he still wants you so you can feel better about yourself? I'm just guessing.
  • You may have hung up after one ring, but you are still hung up on him. Get involved with some new activity or new guy.
  • Maybe out of habit and more so boredom , If you had been at the mall with friends , that wouldn't have crossed your mind . I've done that before and it was like I just needed to be reminded of what a hopeless person I was . So now I just try to stay busy , coming here to AB will help you a lot --- + 5
  • I find myself doing stupid things like that too! Sometimes it's like I know what's going to happen, for example when you slam your finger in the door, you know if you put your finger there that it will hurt but you still do it anyways! I think that maybe deep down inside you do care for this guy and maybe hope that he might change. Or maybe you need to know that he is still an asshole even though you know he probably still is!
  • I think you need to be a bit more honest don't you.
  • Something may have triggered an old feeling, it could have been a movie you just saw, or a song on the radio, a word someone said, a scent like him, we all do things and think, "WHY did I do that".
  • its a typical abused wife situation.. you are so used to being abused you feel you need it to be loved.. but you need to break that.. first love yourself and who you are .. and then go looking fir someone who is worthy of loving you.. stay away from the jerks and idiots of this world.. and dont respond t them.. it only lowers your own self worth.. which is what the abusers want you to feel like so you depend on them, and take the crap they dish out
  • it is great you realize you can be happy without him. you are lonely and have a hard time "letting go". every time you think about calling , go for a walk, read, do something to get your mind off of him. self control... it will get easier, it just takes time....

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