Ask if she will step off the sun lounger. Seriously 'tho-you need to get your wife's permission and ask another lady.You might need to test the water first by your wife and yourself doing some double flirting at a dinner party, the pub etc. As you are probably aware there are pro's and con's to this arrangement.

well, if you both are in agreement to do this then there are websites that you can put up "ads" on. for instance craigslist.com has a section for personal ads. there are also swinger sites too. google them and search around. good luck

Firstly, be sure your wife is WAY into this. Since you don't say anything about convincing her, I'll assume that she is on board. One option is to go out to a bar. A swingers bar in your area might make the job easier, but if you don't have one, any bar will do. Then both of you flirt with whomever you can agree on to have sex with. See if there is anyone who is open to it. Be sure whomever you pick is not drunk and is capable of making thier own decisions. A second option is to go online and post an ad on a website that caters to that sort of thing. I believe Audult Friend Finder does.

I'm assuming you've spoken to your wife about this! I don't know whether you're speaking about a specific hot young woman. If not then there are several places you could look - the backs of some standard newspapers have an "adult" lonely hearts section with local people looking to join couples in bed. The top shelves of newagents and sex shops will sell "contact" magazines with ads listed by location where you may well find someone, and the back of most porn magazines will have listings in the back. You can also try the internet (Googling "threesome" should get you started!) But do be careful obviously - there's no guarantee that the hot young woman is either hot or young (or in some cases, a woman...) or that she isn't a pschopath hell bent on breaking up your marriage or stalking you both. Arrange a non-sex meeting on neutral ground first to try and suss her out before you arrange the big event itself. Another option is a swingers club - using the same methods above you should be able to track one down near you that you can visit and meet some possible candidates. If you're referring to a specific young woman - well, good luck with that - I hope she's up for it.

Money. And lots of it.

Get a hot young wife ; )

Give her money. BTW, If your wife isn't in on it, be prepared to give her a LOT of money over the next several years also.... :0

I'm 21 and in school but I work for college money at an upscale restaurant. The chef (I call him cookie) is super nice, takes great care of me and has had me over to his house numerous times. Recently when we had a bad ice storm and I was stuck in the parking lot he towed me free and followed me home helping me when I would get stuck. He's just a great guy. Well of the three times I've been over at his house I've managed to do something totally embarrassing each time. First time was just an major thong exposure to the whole family while playing twister.. The most recent one was after the ice storm. I stayed at his house and took a shower. I came down stairs in a bath robe his wife game me and after a few too many glasses of wine kind of for got and leaned over too far and flashed my bare ass at the family. Well his wife, has been super friendly and has made it very clear that I'm welcome there and she has told me that my "little accidents" have done a great job of turning on her husband when they go to the bedroom together. She's probably 46 and he's probably 50 but for a chef and 50 he looks 25 and keeps himself trim and fit. Extremely attractive. I get the feeling I may someday be invited to join them. Not sure why but it is how his wife talks to me. She talks openly about sex and what a "younger girl" (she touches my arm) could do to liven things up in the bedroom. The funny thing is I'm not grossed out or weirded out by all this... In fact I might really like it. I'll just have to wait and see if it happens.

I think i'm the one lol...not so sure about the hot part though. Look at my pic...