Is it normal that i have been with a wide variety of guys, but only had an orgasm twice in my life? I'm 21.
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I think it's completely normal. Some people have a more difficult time having an orgasm than others. What may add to that difficulty is the comfort level you have with your partner. Sometimes, the more comfortable you are with the person you're having sex with, the easier it is to have an orgasm. Other contributing factors might include: distractions (stress at the workplace, family, friends, debt, etc) that might stray your mind from the intimacy, self-consciousness (perhaps you worry that your partner doesn't think you're attractive, and this may be a turn-off), or maybe your partner just doesn't do it for ya. It could be any number of things, but don't let it discourage you from thinking you're normal. :)
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So, only two guys actually KNEW what they were doing. Or one guy twice. Ok, I could see that...
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Are you able to orgasm by yourself? (Yes, I mean by masturbation.) If you can, then you are physically fine. If you can't, you may have a problem. You need to know how your body works, what pleases you and what you like and don't like. Then you can share it with your partner(s). They usually need some input from you on what works for you. If they are young or not greatly experienced they will not have much of a clue on how to please you. A woman's body is a lot different than a man's. They aren't born knowing how sex works.
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be thankful for two orgasms
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You're only twenty-one. It's okay. Relax a little. Don't try too hard. Sometimes it's the guys fault for not payig attention to you. Have a drink or smoke before. Take it easy. It will come. Having a relaionship with guy is usually helpful, someone you care for, not a one night stand. One night stands can work too--but probably after your body has become accustomed to orgasm. Sometimes women concentrate so hard on orgasm that they can't. Another trick is to concentrate on pleasing your partner. Don't rush things. Take it S L O W.... Practice at home alone too.
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