Tell your boyfriend you want to grant him a wish -- then ask him the question "how could this be more fulfilling for you?"... maybe there's a special treatment he'd like you to perform but he doesn't feel safe enough to ask. There are so many possibilities -- he probably has specific preferences -- so best to go to the source. And it might not be about sex at all -- a thoughful gift because he treats you right can be fulfilling in a different way.

Ok, this may or not work for you, but you can try to work the withdrawal into a sort of fantasy. You could collect it in a cup and tell him (in the fantasy) that you are going to use it later, sell it, start your own sperm bank... whatever trips his trigger.

To reference another answer a little, you should use condoms. There are good condoms out there that don't ruin the experience. Try them out until you find one you like. This way he can be 'fulfilled' by not having to stop and pull out and you can be protected. If he is pulling out he is probably not doing it in time because most men can't feel the pre-cum that contains semen that WILL GET YOU PREGNANT! Hopefully you will read this in time but I would suggest strongly that you get an EPT from the drugstore RIGHT NOW.

I am going to answer your question because I am not your parent or guardian and you are not asking me to be. You are asking a specific question. Men, not all men... but most men, have an instictive NEED to ejaculate inside of a woman... no matter where that might be inside of her. When he pulls out, it leaves him feeling "incomplete" on an instictive emotional level and it has absolutely nothing to do with his ego. That is why many men want a woman to swallow their sperm. It is equal in emotion for a man to have a woman orally consume his ejaculate as it is for a woman to carry the couples child for 9 months, I have read. A woman who swallows am mans sperm is communicating, from the males perspective, that she is absoulutely in-love with him and is taking him, literally, inside of her body in such a way, as though the two lovers are absolutely One. Sperm is a gift. It is the essence of WHO a man is from an instictive standpoint, although not in daily reality. I am speaking specifically about primitive human instict here. My suggestion is, then, for you to try swallowing your boyfriends cum. There are easy ways to do this without getting all upset over the "Oooooo ...I don't like that stuff" dilemma. When he is about to cum and pulls out, you have to simply place the head of his #%ock at the back of your throat, but not so far that you gag... and then gently but passionately (hurriedly) suck on him as though you are trying to suck a thick milkshake through a tiny straw. When he cums, he will shoot it powerfully right down your throat all the way past most of your tastebuds. You might taste a slight "tang" or sometimes a "sweet tang" combination. It will likely be thick and warm, but not "pungent" or "repulsive" if it is done the way I have described. All you have to do is concentrate on not biting down on him and just start swallowing and sucking at the same time. He will instinctively thrust into your mouth so you need to watch those teeth of yours. He will adore you for it... believe me. Try not to tell him it was "nasty" or "awful" until you have tried it at least three to four times. Once you get the hang of it, you will likely WANT TO do it and will actually begin to crave it. I know this for a fact. Just practice... and it will become so easy to do.

im ashamed buti have to admit i sumtimes use this metho which is risky but my partner gets turned on wen he can cum all over me, i kno it sounds disgusting but its actually not that bad. he especially likes it on my breasts. to make it a litle dirtier wen u think he is bwt to ejaculate whisper in his ear "i want you to cum all over me" this wil give a litle thril!

Okay first I would just like to say that my boyfriend and I used the pull out method for like three months and nothing happened. But we were upset when it came time for waiting for my period, so we started using condoms and now I am on Birth control. I usally would swallow his cum after he pulled out that seemed to make him happy.

Use a condom, then he gets the pleasure of feeling like he has cum inside you. It's so stupid not to use a condom becasue it's really not a safe method of birth control. Even if you are careful, men preduce a 'pre-cum' that can get you pregnant and will pass on any sti's

as soon as he pulls out give him a bj that way he still gets to cum some plase soft and warm

Get yourself on the pill and take it religiously according to the directions on the package. Then you don't have to worry about him pulling out, and you can let him come inside of you.

You never make love TO that person. You make love WITH that person. For the sake of the younger folks who read these answers, I won't get very graphic. I'm sure you can use your imagination. I AM A VERY fortunate man. I had the wonderful experience of seeing my parents, both sets of grandparents and all my aunts and uncles behave as though they were constantly on their honeymoons with their spouses. They would hold hands, cuddle, hug, kiss, whisper things to each other, say, "I love you, _____!" and carry-on like many young people, who are in love, do in public. They would smile at each other and tell each other how beautiful, wonderful and thoughtful she was and how thoughtful, wonderful and handsome he was! WOW! What a great set of romance role models! No, I never watched as they were making love in the most intimate way, but I DID see and learn from their examples and inter-actions with their spouses! As far as I know, no one ever cheated on the other. That being said, one day my mother's father got in the car with me. I was driving him to the track. He "LOVED those ponies"! He was well-aware of the relationship I had with the lady I was dating and who would one day be my bride. He said words similar to these: I know your father told you what to do, but did he ever tell you how to do it? I answered, "No". He went on to say, "I'm going to tell you some things I don't think you'll learn from any one else. When you have sex, make love or whatever you want to call it, you don't behave like most other men. Most men are just interested in one thing and one thing only - satisfying their own selfish selves. That's NOT the way to do it. You have to make absolutely certain she is satisfied. No matter how long it takes or what you have to do, you have to do whatever it takes to make sure she does what she likes to do best. You HAVE TO satisfy her first. Your brain is the most important sex organ. Your brain controls what happens downstairs. When you aren't sure about what to do or how to do it, ask her what she wants you to do. She'll tell you or she'll show you. When you're making love, you think of other things - not what's going on at that particular moment with that particular lady. When you think about what you're actually doing, I guarantee you'll never satisfy the lady in your life. He went on to explain about holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing and taking things one step at a time. He described a lot of things I heard of but wasn't sure about. During that ride, one of the last things he said was: When you are absolutely sure she is satisfied, then you can do what you know is best for you - but not one minute before. That's what I was told. Thank you, Gran'pop. I love you. I miss you! Some afterthoughts: You could also buy a book, on-line, called "Kama Sutra." You could also go on-line and make the investment in some "adult sex toys" to stimulate and arouse. There are LOTS of sites. Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons"