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First you have to understand that of course he CHANGED. Everything changes when you get married. You say he can't do shit without her say so, well he must not mind it, so it's ok if he's ok with it. And when you are married you do have to let the person you are married to know what's going on and where you are going. They are a unit now, and have to act as one. As far as explaining this to your friend, be very careful in the words you choose, he might very well get upset if he feels you are threating his relationship. r u single??
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You cannot explain this to your friend unless he asks. And I don't think he will. About all you can do is tell him that you miss the old him and you really miss being able to hang out with him like you used to. He has made a choice and has to figure out how to make it work for him, or decide that it won't work. But it is his life, his choice, his relationship, and you would be hurting him and your friendship if you interfere.
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