ANSWERS: 37
  • your the only one that can answer that question. Which one are you more drawn to?
  • Well, I don't think you're gonna find out your sexuality by reading a book...how old are you? If you are young it normal to question your sexuality..,but sooner or later you will know your sexuality.
  • Have a look at this answer. I think it may help you. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/935832
  • There is research that shows that most people lie somewhere along a continuum which ranges from totally straight at one end, and totally gay at the other end. In other words, most people are at least somewhat bi. Wherever you are along this line, that's what is normal for you. Be proud of who you are.
  • Ulitimately this is something you have to figure out for yourself, but here's what I go by: If I only like women, that makes me a lesbian. If I only like men, that makes me straigh. If there's some gray area, and I might like both, but at different rates, I would consider that bisexual. I consider MYself bisexual, because I would date and have sex with both males and females, heavier on the females side. But you have to be the one to choose your "label" or even to have one. :) Good luck!
  • This was the process I went through: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/825311 Maybe it'll help.
  • Your gay..trust me.
  • Sorry Buddy, I'm straight, you'll have to find someone else to help....
  • Your probally gay, just suck it up man
  • Why try and figure it out? Why not just be and do what you got to do and be Okay with that? That's my advice to you, my friend. Dont question it, just BE.
  • If you even question putting a penis in your mouth, you are probably gay.
  • Reading to educate yourself on the matter is helpful, but listen to your heart as well. Obviously, you''ve got a curiosity about the same sex, so it's possible you may be attracted to men. If you are, you may find you enjoy both men and women (and don't let anyone tell you biselxuality is a cop-out or indecisiveness -- that's bull). You may find, however, you are exclusively drawn to males and enjoy only the friendship you get from females. That's okay, too. The only way to really know is to experiment. That doesn't have to mean sex; sexual identity encompasses far more than two bodies moving together. It means you should get to know some gay men, date men and women, socialize with both gay and straight people. In time, you'll settle into your natural preference. Good luck and whatever you do in your life, be proud of who you are.
  • These are my two hot friends. Who would you rather make-out with?
  • uh let your little brain tell you, it knows what it wants
  • I've had the same question and I always end up alone, in a stall, in a strip club.
  • well i think in may be in your best bet to try both. to see which one turns you on more.
  • Sexual Orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual or affectional attraction to another person. It is easily distinguished from other components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the psychological sense of being male or female) and the social gender role (adherence to cultural norms for feminine and masculine behavior). Here is a link to more of what the American Psychological Association has to say: http://www.apa.org/topics/orientation.html
  • There is nothing going on here that is a matter of life or death...let time take its course. You will not find the answer in a book, but in your heart when the right person comes along. You are spending far too much energy on something that really isn't that important..you are what you are...big deal.
  • Do you like penis? Do you like vagina? Do you like both? Case solved...
  • Books won't help at all. Have you had a sexual relationship with anyone yet or not?
  • You won't find your answer in any book. Who do you feel sexually drawn to..it really is that easy.
  • only YOU can answer this. only YOU know who you are attracted to. same sex only? then you're probably gay. both genders? then you are probably bi.
  • in ur heart u must know,who do u think about when ur feeling sexy,u know the answer not us
  • Welcome to life. We've all been exactly where you are. You're not alone. What you are going throught is not new. Here are some links that may offer some helpful information. 6 steps to coming out: http://www.4therapy.com/consumer/life_topics/article/7244/441/Coming+Out--6+steps+to+coming+out+of+the+closet+as+a+gay+person more coming out resources (this one has more links): http://gaylife.about.com/od/comingout/Coming_Out.htm
  • WIch are you more attracted to?
  • You know i feel alot like you. I can get attracted to females, but i can also get excited by males. I dont know what i am or if im anything. Is this normal????
  • put it this way...masturbate thinking of a women u find VERY attractive to the point of orgasm. then do the same but think of a man u find VERY attractive....which orgasm is stronger and more pleasurable??? i found this helpfull when try to work out my sexual orientation! ; )
  • maybe your thinking to hard? just be your self. if your attracted to someone so be it. i feel people can be attracted to the same and opposite sex. that doesn't mean your gay or straight. i truely think that if you have to wonder then maybe your not. maybe your just curious and need to have that experience to know what its like? you may like it? i think love knows NO boundries only people do. try not to put a lable on yourself, sometimes they can gey sticky.
  • How can you question your gayness or bisexuality? Don't most gay people claim they just knew they were gay from the start? I don't care if your gay, stay gay...but I do have an issue with bisexuality. To me, thats just a horny toad who wants to bone anything in sight. Stay gay.
  • 1- Love is love. No matter gay, bi, or straight. No matter what gender, no matter white or black, love is love. 2- No matter if you question it, try it. Go out and meet someone of each gender (not at the same time) and dare I say it, have some fun. If you liked both, you'll know. If you liked just one and the other made u uncomfortable, you'll know.
  • I guess it matters what sexual artner you are most comfotable with. I love a man and that makes me gay. I like women and enjoy their company but that does not make me straight
  • I think it's something that just has to happen on its own. I know it can be confusing, but after awhile, everything sorts itself out. =)
  • imagine the ideal relationship? is its with a man or a woman? where do u have more fun, at a gay club or straight? look around, open your eyes and you will find the answer (if you are gay for less than a girl then... give it a time)
  • Check out what you sexual and real experiences are.Just be honest with yourself. No one else can decide this for you, Look inside and you wil find the answer. Who cares about the result other than you.
  • Reading too much can get one confused as every book has its agenda. Take a Christmas break from reading and thinking. Have a great Holiday and read again in the NEW YEAR if you haven't yet found an answer. The NEW YEAR often brings a fresh outlook
  • Just be who you are and forget about the labels.
  • i've written 4 books. i've read 4,000 books. want to know a secret? sometimes books can help you with things like courage or maybe helping you to know what to expect. but, you'll never "discover" your sexuality from books. . remember moses met god on the mountain top and who did god say that he was? "i am". not, "what'll you call me?" or "what if?" . fully be. life involves some experimentation. sometimes we find out things we DO NOT like (me, it's coconut)! sometimes we find out things we DO LIKE (me, it's freedom)! . based on your age and your location, given that you are questioning this subject, you might look for resources in your area. if you can't, look on the internet or call a center in a city near you. and, good luck!

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