How would you react if your partner suggest a threesome,swinging, or group sex? What would you do?Would you do it?
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She can add as many women as she wants. Other then that its just impossible for me - unless she finds someone thats into having me vomit.
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I would say no thank you and I would try to find out why or how he wasn't being satisfied.
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I'd be upset, and need to find out why he'd even entertain the thought.
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trust me he would not suggest it
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We've discussed and and my husband and I are for those things. What can I say we're a little freaky!
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No I would not and my husband would never have suggested it , we were quite happy just the two of us.
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He wouldnt dare suggest that he likes his dangly bits were they are.
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I'm perfectly happy with my wife and only my wife and she's not into sharing either. My answer is no.
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I would feel inadequate and I would say no.
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I would probably cry, feel that i was bad in bed, and then try and talk out the problems/feelings thats going on. I never try it, sleeping with someone/making love is meant to be a special private time with the person you love. Not something that should be exploted and degraded.
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The only thing swinging in our bed better be my boobs and his man parts;)
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I would say no thank you, two in one bed is quite enough. I couldn't do it unless maybe it was Holly Hunter!
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My hubby and I have had a threesome and we both really enjoyed it. It was my idea. It's not something we'd do often or whatever, but if it happens again, that's fine, too.
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no I wouldn't even if i had a partner which i don't.It is a time to be with just your partner.not to give others a cheap thrill.
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I have had threesomes with two of my girlfriends, and each time has been with women. Personally, It doesn't affect me any more than just being with one woman, especially if I love them, however it seems I always date girls who like both men and women. I don't think, however, that I could have a threesome with my partner (which I currently don't have) and another man. I'm kind of a jealous person.
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I'm not interestd in partner-swapping or engaging in group sex. However, I'm not entirely opposed to the idea of having a threesome. Being bi-sexual, it wouldn't be awkward or uncomfortable for me to envision myself being sexual with another woman. That said, the situation would have to be handled with extreme delicacy and caution. As much as I imagine it might be an interesting experience, reality suggests that there would be far too many potential issues that wouldn't make it worth it.
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I would crack up! Hubby's not the type :) I would also check him for a fever...lol
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If he was serious, dump his ass. You don't share yourself around like that, part of sex is unity with that one person in a way that no one else gets.
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To quote Lt. Frank Drebin (Police Squad): "I like my sex like I like my basketball.....one-on-one with a minimum of dribbling"....:-D... . . .
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I would have a fit!! no way, no how, im happy with my hubby and he with me, just the two of us dangling together!!! oh god no... and definitely no to group sex, hell i couldnt think of anything worse.
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I've done it many times before, Im totally ok with it and would do it again, although, I doubt we will!
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If it was two guys, yes. I would most definately do it.
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Nope. Bad for relationship.
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I think I have seen one person among your answers that acctually answered part of your question. And that came from Pretty pirot when she talks about being BI. Your question realy askes three questions in one, being asked to part take in a threesome is one question. This could obviously be MMF or FFM. Swinging would be Mf, MF or possibbly mm, ff. group sex I think can be just about any combinations. I think all the options are relative and should be talked about in a reasonable manner, and not this go away and get treatment comments some users gives as answers/comments. Why cant more peoploe read th equestions before they post their answers. I will post my answers, but throught I would like to larify this first.
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if it was suggessted by my girlfriend it would definately make for intresting coversation,and or fantasy...as for carrying it out..as much as the idea rasies my"curiosity" i think some things should be left as fantasy
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No - I have a jealousy problem in those situations
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I would suggest he see a psychiatrist and if that didn't work, perhaps a divorce lawyer. I didn't get married to have sex with other people involved.
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While the kinky side of me finds the idea intriguing, my partner knows all too well that the jealouos side of me would make his life hell for the next 20 years - so its just not worth the hassle.
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It depends on who it was with.
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I have never had anyone make that suggestion before but if they did I would just work harder at pleasing her and put that thought right out of her head. I do not like to share. im selfish like that
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My partner knows better than to suggest something like that, we are not in a place which our relationship would be able to handle it. Back in the day I would have been very receptive of a threesome. Group sex doesn't allow savoring of the sensations, too much going on. As a side note I knew someone who got picked up by a couple in a fast food drive-thru. They picked him up after work and drove around in a van while the husband watched him with his wife... I still can't believe he did that!
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If wife suggested a 3some, swinging, or group sex: I would go for it (at least I think I would). I have been married for 22 years and have never fooled around on my wife. I am 47, exercise every day and am in good shape, she used to be until a few years ago. I am a pleaser and my wife is not, I outlast her in bed 98% of the time and am bored with the quality of our sex life. It is always the same thing, the same way, she gets off first and then is finished and I'm on my own. I love her but she puts no effort into our love life and an agreed upon experiment would (I think) be welcome. I know there are a few ladies at work that like me so I guess I am appealing but I would never fool around on her unless she wanted to.
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I would feel like he didn't like me much anymore and needed someone else to make him happy. And no I wouldn't do it.
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Not no, but hell no! And then I'd scratch his eyes out for even suggesting it.
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It depends on the other people involved.
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It depends on the partner I'm with. If it were a threesome, I'd require the third party to have a Y chromosome (MTF would count). I'm too jealous to see my partner with another woman but don't feel as bad if it were with another man. As long as there's discussion beforehand and all parties involved know the situation, it's all good. (I'm picky, but I tend to date bisexual guys. Think of how few men would be willing to take on another man in the bedroom for a threesome. I've known a few "shemales" and I think that would be the best thing for me to do. The only problem is that the ones I've known have either "transitioned"/had the operation or have moved.)
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I've always reacted by saying "Hell yeah"
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Depends on who its with
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I absolutely would not do it no matter how much I loved that person. I feel like if he wants to have sex with another woman whether or not Im involved with the act, he doesnt love me.
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I rarely have a boyfriend, but if he suggested, I'd be all for it. Done threesomes, swinging, and group sex before, so I'm all for it. The more the merrier!
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I would, however I wouldn't want it to be people we already knew. Yet, I wouldn't want to chance unsafe sex... so I'm not sure. The thought of a threesome is very exciting, it's been about 20 years since I've had one.
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No. And, considering the attention that I've gotten from him for the last decade, I would divorce him.
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Number one my wife would never suggest or go for such a thing. Number two, even if she did, I wouldn't go there. It is my personal opinion that's it's just asking for trouble inviting other sexual partners into a relationship. To each his/her own and if that's what floats someone's boat, then great, but, swinging is not for me/us.
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I would not be into this...the most i would do is "roll play" the situation and use sex toys which we use often
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I think if you can get over the jealousy factor and feel comfortable in the fact that it's just for fun and a bit of variety then it can add a bit of spice to the couples sex life.
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"Yippie.... I can't do it before tomorrow....."
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Ohh, hmmm. Didn't see you there...
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My boyfriend and I have been in a sexual relationship where there are multiple sex partners for over 5 1/2 years (male sex partners for me only), and he has no trust issues because it was HIM that suggested that I take on multiple male sex partners. In fact, it turns him on seeing me with multiple sex partners and I love having multiple male sex partners.
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don't knock it until you try it.i bugged my wife for years and finally gave up. She researched it on the internet and told me she would place an ad on craigslist, I just about fell over from shock! We had so many replies MMF narrow it down to a couple, finally tried it and she loves it! Almost too much, be careful what you ask for!
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look at them, make sure they are serious, and then ask all the right questions. and i get all the right answers, like everyone one is disease free... then hell yes!
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Why would you do that, do you have any morals?
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me and my wife had 2 threesome 1. my Ex her and me (it was My wife's idea) 2. this lesbian (now she's a bisexual)that works with my wife (again her idea)
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It was never suggested because it always was. What I mean is the three of us (wife, me and a long time male friend) have been having sex for years together. I don't really see it changing anything as we are all open and comfortable with each other. Being both Bi (the guys), it helps a lot. I would never be with someone I just met - that would make both wifey and me uncomfortable.
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I would love it. Though I would prefer it be one of either the opposite sex, if I'm dating a guy at the time, or else another guy if I'm dating a girl.
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Done it got the T shirt and we love it
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It really depends on who it would be with, if it was with our friends, any of them at all then NO WAY!!!!! it can get all complicated then, but maybe if it was with a suitable stranger, not some sick person who is a crazy or something.
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I know that my guy has had a threesome before i came into the picture, but since I have been with him, i told him that i would not swing that way,and will not share him with anyone else, that if he wanted a commited realtionship, and wants to keep it that way, then he will not do it again. He tells me he dosent want anyone else, and if he knew that it would cause us problems after the fact, he would have never done it.
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hell yeah orgy orgy orgy hell yeah
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me and my friend both say maybe. because it would be different and interesting and were always up 4 sumtin new.......
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It wouldn't bother that much, because i've suggested it in the past. I told him i've had 2 guys in a bathhouse once in the past, but i still dog around. So i'd sound like a hypercrite if i got peeved.
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i would do it if i can set the boundarys
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Well my last bf, now my ex-bf, got there in sort of a roundabout way. First he suggested we have sex when his best friend was in the room. It was a pretty crazy idea but kind of like naughty and tempting too so we tried it. Then when we finished and were kind of just laying there catching our breath he asked how I felt about the friend joining in. If he had started there I doubt it would have happened but well in the heat of the moment it worked OK. The crazy part is I am still good friends with my ex's friend but not with my ex.
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hell yeah tell me when and can we make it sooner??
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I love the idea but am afraid that it wouldn't be just "sex" Too many issues involved, emotions and personal stuff.
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i would at least try it. whats the harm in just trying? you never have to do it again if you dont like it.
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I'd ask who we were going to try these activities with. Based on that, I might do it or I might not.
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If your partner just mentioning such a thing turns uyou on you might want to consider it because it could hurt if you don't, but it can also hurt you if you do. Say you do be very percise on exactly what you want.
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He did and we did.
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i would do it i luv pain stick all 10 dicks in me tell i bleed...yes ..yes ..yes
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maybe
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yeah I would definitly do it, even though I have been with my guy for 2 years. We have always talked about having a threesome for a change. We have actually agreed on it, but there is no one near were we live that i would consider. I would have to do it with someone, or get to know them really well, bc I dont want to get no diseases.
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It's ever man's fantasy to be a sandwich. Yeah, the actual idea of it scares the shit out of me.
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I would love for my wife to suggest this because I want to see her with two other men.
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If I'm the only guy in the group, then sure ;)
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Wouldn't bother me, because I'm a swinger anyway.
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If I'm the only guy, then by all means, sure ;)
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I would be ecstatic and would say yes regardless of the circumstances - mmf, ffm, mmmmf, whatever! I would love to experience something like that. I have got close to this with an ex when we talked about it and agreed to ask a guy to join us, he was keen to, but it never happened, then we broke up not long after. Sadly I know my current partner would almost certainly never do anything like that!
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Well I would be pretty pissed. When I met my wife I told her I would do anything sexualy but have a third party involved. It seems selfish but it was my perogative and if she didn't share that with me then we could not marry me. So no I wouldn't do it but I don't see anything wrong with it if others do it. What ever floats their boat, it just doesn't float mine.
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OK When?
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In a previous marriage my wife and I engaged in group sex, wife swapping, you name it. It was alot of fun in the sexual sense but caused problems in the relationship. That being said, depending on who she wanted to be the partners, I'd probably do it.
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He has asked to watch me be with another woman or man but says I'd go home to and love only him. I'm not comfortable with this. Am I just old fashioned? Can you go outside the bounds of monogamy without emotional reprocussions?
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I WOULD AGREED BUT I MUST BE PRESENT TO WATCH THE ACT
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If my wife suggested it with another guy I would have no problem. We have a warm loving relationship and both thoroughly enjoy sex with each other but, provided the guy wasn't someone we knew ( where I agree it could get complicated ) then why not? Could be exciting. Certainly there would be no jealousy on my part and if he proved to be some superstud then lucky her!!
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No I would not do it as I believe it will only lead to trouble. I will tell my partner that they are free to look for one that I'm not involved with, but that they may as well look for another partner in the process. I must confess that I would loose respect for partner if she would do this, and that would damage the trust and therefore also limit the love. I have no desire for such a relationship.
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No one at a time for me thanks, if i want an extra one ill use my rabbit too.:-)
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So many answers against the idea ... bummer. I for one would be into trying threesomes, swinging AND group sex. (As far as threesomes go, I've only done MFM before. I am open to other options now.)
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my wife has made that suggestion. she asked if i would be willing to do her with another man I said yes and we have done it several times. In on instance she was sucking me while he was behind her doing a number of things and lemme tell you, i had never seen raw ecstacy like that before and it turned me on sooo much. I was an awesome thing to share.
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Well let's see when my ex GF asked me to do a threesome with one of her friends I first jumped for joy. I then was able to settle my excitement to say yes.
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I would like to say this first. If you are so insecure in your relationship that you can not express your desire to experience something different or your partner desire to try something different, then why are you together? The desire to do any of the above doesn't mean that your partner is inadequate it shows a desire to please more than he or she can do alone. The experience can improve your sex life when you are alone together. So definatly YES!!!
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I did, before I was married, but I would never have done that with my husband. He was mine and only mine, but not any more! Now I'm older and I'd never do it again, but I did have the experience.
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I have said yes. It is a powerful thing to see your woman in total ecstacy due to being the center of attention between two men. She was on her hands an knees going deep on me with her mouth as he went to town with a ten inch dildo, his cock, tongue and fingers. He was too afraid to use his cock for the double penetration so he used the dildo as she rode me. Yeah I suggest every one do this.
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my guy has already told me that he's interested in having a threesome. not surprised. i think it's almost every man's fantasy to be with two girls at once. yeah, i'm not sure if that fantasy is ever going to become a reality for him. frankly, i think it would do damage to our relationship. yeah, i told him that i was unsure and he said that's fine. he was understanding.
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YES WE HAVE DONE IT AND AFTER BEING MARRIED 22YRS IT HAS MADE OR MARRIAGE BETTER AND IT HAS SPICED IT UP!!!
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I would die of shock. not go along with it. Not for me.
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I would said great. :)
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Oh... Yes... I'll invite my huband's best friend for the threesome. I'm getting wet even thinking abt it.
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Sure! i tried suggesting it a few times but without success until today:-(
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We have discussed it and haven't discounted it so if she suggested it I would do it.
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What is up with all you jealous people. I mean when a man has sex, does it permanently mark him in some way and to show that he had sex with some one, or does it mark a woman? I mean if I had sex with a man and my husband came home and we had sex, would he know that some one else had had me earlier? If you enjoy each other and want to swing cool. If you don't that's cool too. Either way is ok, just can't do the jealous thing, insecure is such a turn off. Men grow up and women too. Guys don't ask the stupid question's, am I the biggest, best, hardest? Unless she's a virgin, the answer is probably NO.
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I'm sure he would love to have a threesome with another girl. It's never going to happen.
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