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You might? have to break up with him? You should break up with him. He is trying to control you and this is only the begining. Get out,stay out and don't look back.

Break up with him..the sooner the better :)

First talk with him about it, if there is no change in his behavior I'd just break up with him. If my boyfriend tells me I'm his, I don't mind because I tell him he's mine. lol

You should break up with him. He is being too possessive. Just end it.

When you date, you run the risk of getting involved with an unbalanced control freak. Honey, this is just what you got. I have read hundreds of times that guys will stalk and hunt down former girlfriends and either rape or murder them. You need to be very careful how you handle this. Even despite your most gentle handling of the situation, his anger and jealousy could become explosive. There is no "generic" answer I can give you on this. If you do break up with him, do it in a public place with some family members or friends around.

yes get out now. YOu belong to yourself not him. Tell him that you are nobodys property. If you are scared to tell him then he has power over yu and he uses that to keep you there. for your own saftey get out now.. cause if you don't, he may start doing alot worse then what he is doing now.Tell him in a public place that is the best thing to do. he will not start anything because he will not want an ugly scene in public.I hope that this helps you some.

LEAVE and LEAVE NOW!!!!! you are nobodys property!!!!!! belive me sweetie it only gets worse from there!!!!!!

Before you make a decision, you should do a full background check on him if you haven't already. See if he has harmed any of his ex gf's. Talk to some of his ex gf's if possible and if it won't put you in danger. Sounds like a dangerous and tricky situation. And the longer you stay with him, the more dangerous and tricky it will become, because he will become more and more attached to you.

Those are some strong words, that could scare a lot of people away. Either way you are going to break his heart. A break up, is simply a break up, and it's not nice and it's not easy. Both sides have a hard time, especially when you're both on different pages. Never say this, "It's not you, it's me", it's a line you mine as well get out of your head, because it is never true! You want to break up with him, because it's simply not working. "I don't know how to break this to you, and this is such a hard thing for me to do, but for me this situation with us is different. I want different things, and I feel like you're more into me than I am to you. You scared me with your comment about "i'm your property"! It's a controlling comment, and it made me uncomfortable. I know I'm going to hurt you, and of course, I'd rather not, but this is something I need to do for myself. I really hope sometime in our lives we can be friends, but for right now I really need to be in my own space. I really do feel terrible, but you never in relationships, want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. I don't know what else to say, except I'm being honest, and I hope you can appreciate that as much as possible." Then you now get to see what he says, it won't be good, but as long as you're honest, then you have nothing to be ashamed of! Good luck, hope I could help!

I would break up with this guy immediately!!!! Anyone this possessive has issues that you cannot solve. Let your family and friends know how is is acting and what he is doing. You need their support in this. Good luck.

Riff-Raff gave you very good advice! After you've told him with plenty of back up support don't go anywhere with him, no matter how sweet he talks or how sorry he is. A few yrs ago my friends daughter went thru the same thing, only she went for a ride with him so they could be alone and talk. She never came home, the boy hit a tree doing 100mph. It was my friends only child. This boy has issues! don't put yourself in harms way. At first it's cute, you think oh boy, he loves me. This is not love. Let your family know whats going on. Good luck. :)

If he is claiming you as his property, then you are a victim of a slavery crime ... that was S L A V E R Y !!! ... this is one of the most serious crimes in the whole world, and as if that was not bad enough, the violence is just around the corner ... please leave him NOW.

You need to get away from him and now! Riff-Raff gave excellent advice as did Dead_Drunk,in fact everyone gave good advice so I will just agree with them. Please be careful...and good luck to you.

if he starts acting up get a bat and break his shins nobody deserves what hes doin run away leave him in the dust to rot like the peice of crap he is...

Yeah, break up with him before the violence starts. This is not a guy you need to be around. And when you do it do in public with lots of other people around. Also a call to his mother to give her a clue in might be a good idea. She needs to know how her son treated you so she can do something to nip it in the bud. You also need to tell your parents so yo can decide together if a no contact order is needed.

Don't ignore what your gut is telling you. This guy sounds like a potential stalker. If these traits describe him, you need to get out of this relationship IMMEDIATELY. -will not take no for an answer. -obsessive personality. -above average intelligence. -may not have a relationship outside of the one with you. -doesn't display the discomfort or anxiety that people should feel in certain situations. -has low self-esteem. -can't see how his actions hurt you. -has a mean streak and may become violent when frustrated. When you break up with him, don't try to let him down easy or use the common euphemisms. If you say, "It's just not working out," a stalker hears, "We can make it work out." Tell him that you are not his property, you do not belong to him, and that you are permanently ending your relationship with him. Don't talk to him again. I know this seems a little drastic but stalking is a very real danger. Even if this guy isn't a full blown stalker, he's a jerk and you deserve better! Sources: http://www.esia.net/Common_Traits_of_Stalkers.htm http://www.antistalking.com/aboutstalkers.htm

Honey, pack up your emotional baggage and hop on the first Greyhound outta that relationship - on the double. This guy is, at best, a control freak, but more likely a "Future Member of Wife-Beater's Anonymous" You're really setting yourself up to be seriously injured both emotionally and physically, and maybe worse. If you're living with him, LEAVE THE HOUSE NOW! Go to a shelter - You'll be fine. They'll support you. You'll find a new, better life with new, better men. If you're not (hopefully) living together. Tell him (on the phone) you're through and cut him off. NOW!

This may sound sick but I like it when my boyfriend tells me that! I don't know about you but for the most part our relationship is pretty good! He doesn't say it to scare me though, but it does make me feel good when he says things like that! He is not that possesvie over me though. If he scares you then you should probably tell him....

This is the same boyfriend who got mad at you for hugging your dad? Break up with him in a public place, change residence, change your name, run away from him!

You should be more scared that he'd hurt you rather than just breaking up with him. I'm guessing you still live at home. Tell your parents how he's being controling, stop hanging out with him and leave him be! If you don't take this advice, you'll wind up on the 6:00 news. Seriously, this isn't a joke. If you stay with this guy, that means you have not listened to a thing anyone has said and you WANT to end up dead, or as a battered wife on Oprah. Seriously, GET RID OF THIS LOSER.

I take it that this is the same LOSER who got mad because you hugged your Father. I said it before and I'll say it again. Don't walk away from this ignorant goober. Please, RUN away from this ignorant, potentially dangerous GOOBER !! If not, you will most likely wind up hurt or WORSE.

This relationship is headed for big problems, if not the loss of life! You need to get out of this and NOW. If you dont live with him, tell someone you trust about this matter and have someone stay with you- dont be alone. If you live with him, you need to get out now. You can also go to the police- and do something before you become another casuality of an overpossessive person.

WOW.....Its so not cool for a guy to do that...I mean I'm married and my husband tells me that all the time and its aight cuz technically we're each others property....LOL! But you two are boyfriend and girlfriend and well really your not his property...Some guys say it to be cute and to tell other guys to back off. And sometimes gurlz say it to either make it known that no other girl better not even try to mess wyt their man or to just make it known that their man better no mess around period. But all 4rel if you aint got a ring on your finger he should be sayn your his property....and if you don't wanna make him feel bad just tell him straight out that you aint. If you love him you should let a few dumb words come between you two...

You MUST break up with him. You might need help. You will need protection and support as Riff Raff said. Get it. If he is not dangerous now, he will be, so sticking it out is not an option. He will eat you alive and you will lose yourself if you continue this relationship. He needs a series of rejections to discover that this is totally unacceptable as an attitude toward women. There may be hope for him, but not without him experiencing some of the consequences of his sick way of thinking. Stop at nothing to get away from him, but be careful. Get a restraining order if necessary. All the best to you. You deserve better and you are worth being treated with respect as a person in your own right. Do not do this alone.

Who is he Tony Montana? to many other guys out there to hold his hand through his insecurities. Ps. Im a guy not a girl And thats how i feel about girls

drop him.. he's an insecure control freak.

Scarey to say the least. Guys/men like that could be potentually dangerous. I don't know how old you are, but when you DO break it off with him, do it on the phone or have lots of friends with you. If your under 18, tell your parents about your fear, they can be a big help...don't be afraid to tell them.

If you grab his balls and squeeze...bring his face close to yours and say "if I belong to you, your balls are mine" If you're sufficiently scary looking when you do this, he'll never eff with you again. I wouldn't, that's probably the scariest situation I can imagine. Do it, it'll work.

listen to what that little voice inside you is saying. I can tell that you dont feel comfortable with him so i would leave, however my b/f and i do that with each other...calling the other, "Mine" but it's all in good fun and no one really takes it seriously...i dont really believe he is mine...

Might have to break up with him? If anyone spoke to my little sister that way, I'd smash his teeth in while she packed up and moved on. He isn't worth the air he breaths.

Is he YOUR property too? If it's not an equal relationship then it's not a relationship. If he's just being a macho fool, that's one thing and you can discuss with him how you don't like when he says those things and that it's degrading. If he means what he says literally, there's only one thing to do. Show him how wrong he is. Get away from him & stay away from him.

hello Tina. you mind if I call you Tina. like as in "IKE and Tina Turner" think about it. you don't belong to any body ok.

Your a person not a thing so you have rights and don't belong to anyone and you should leave him if he makes you unhappy

I had a guy like this once, i broke all bonds with him, left all my friends he had made friends with, and i even changed my phone number, the guy came in my house in the middle of the night and tried to kill me, I would be very careful around him, as others have said break up with him, give him back all his stuff, lose all your friends who are mutual, i don't like the fact that he said you will always be his... cuz my ex told me.. if i cant have you nobody else will... be extremely careful around him, i can't stress that enough.. Good luck, and i hope it all works out for you.

Run now and don't look back. You aren't even married and he feels like that? Run, sweetie.

What does he think you are, merchandise from Wal-Mart? My girlfriend didn't come with ownership papers. There's no pink slip. You're a human being and you don't belong to someone that doesn't respect and love you. This goes for all ladies having a "Controlling" boyfriend or husband.

you should have stood up the first time he started speakin that nonsense, and gave him a piece of your mind. never allow anybody to talk shit to or about u or treat as if you're inferior. you're in a relationship and supposed to be his equal.

This Q is over one year old. I hope you have broken up with him already.

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