Yes... However I do not "go out with guys so that guy thing may stop me alone. However if the spousal unit had been rumored to be a behavioral problem then somebody else would now be the spousal unit. ;)

Yes, i think so, especially the bad temper bit, also if he is bad tempered and drinks that will make things 10 times worse. You could be in for a life of hell with him. Steer clear i think.

Oh my YES!! I find heavy drinking very unattractive! And a bad temper will only mean he will eventually treat the girl the same way! Which no girl deserves being belittled!

Um... I probably wouldn't even talk to him let alone date him. Hey wait a minute, that sounds a lot like my brother. Have you two met?

I dont know sometimes that whole bad boy syndrome is exciting and you feel you could get in their and fix all the bad things about him. Usually this is not very successful but many women try and give it a whirl.I myself would advise to steer clear but if you want to go ahead proceed with caution and remember that people change only when they are willing not when someone else tries to intervene.

Any one of those would be enough to send me packing, especially the temper and drinking. I grew up with someone who had a temper and it's something I never want to live with ever again. Can't do it. I'm all for peace and quiet and solving frustrations in a calm thoughtful way. And I deserve to be respected and he doesnt' sound like he respects himself let alone capable of respecting others.

The thrill will make you wana take the risk and go on a date but trust me in the long run guys like this really suck. Don't let yourself get pulled in!

You don't need this loser. You will be the punching bag, the reason HE is so miserable and all the time you will wonder why doesn't he love me? He isn't capable of caring for anyone but himself. You won't ever have a peaceful night wondering if he is out there "flirting". Pass on this deal.

well yes because then i would not be able to trust him and feel safe around him

I would certainly think twice about it.

Frankly that would stop me from even wanting to know him let alone date him.

Now that I've been through what I have? Yes. Just broke up with a "heavy drinker" I guess you could say. He was the sweetest guy... no bad temper, but ultimately it was the drinking and talking to his ex that just ended it. Save yourself some heartache and find someone with some willpower.

Unfortunately this sounds like the trifecta of faults and not a good match for any sane person.

I think if my date manifested these kinds of behaviors, I would get the hell out of there quickly by simply saying, "Bye."

Go out with him.... hell, I married him. Thankfully, he just curses a lot now.

That sounds like me! No, I wouldn't date myself. Just kidding. I have dated people like this, but it's not something I can tolerate anymore. I don't mind the cursing. I don't care if they drink, but if they are constantly drunk then it's no good. Bad tempers are the one thing I cannot tolerate. We wouldn't get along.

no way..

why bother?

No, I'm not interested in dating your mother. (IT"S A JOKE!!! Don't punish me!)

LMAO, he's on the couch going off on someone now

too irritating to contemplate.

I would NOT date a guy ... Absolute NOT date a consumer of alcohol ... only non consumers make my list. Probably NOT date due to the bad temper part. Cursed a lot is borderline and is therefore negotiable.

I would absolutely not go out with him.

What do you "LIKE" about this guy? He has a BAD TEMPER, drinks heavily, and flirts with other women. What on earth could you find attractive about him? To answer your question: -Not only would this stop me from wanting to date him, it would also stop me from wanting anything to do with him. Too many wonderful people are in this world...why settle for garbage?

uuuuuhhhhhhh.....yep!

I would avoid like the plague!

Uh, DUH!!!

probably. we girls like to get ourselves in those situations and then complain about it to as many people as possible when it doesnt work out

WHY WOULD YOU EVEN THINK ABOUT IT IN THE FIRST PLACE?

Of course! 100%!!

And you like him because..............????????? I would not get near that mess with a ten foot pole.

Your kidding right?

Of course. File this one under "duh"

No! Of course not! I mean, I was brought up on fairy tales where the right princess makes the beast just want to reform and where good guys are boring and the naughty boy only needs 'saving' and is the one with all the passion and romance. Oh yeah, I'm full of cr*p. Plus of course I suspect I am better, stronger than other girls, that I have some magical spark that is missing from them and I know more than all of them put together, too, so even if they failed to make him have the manners of a ...well of an anything... that would just be a MASSIVE challenge to me to rush in there. Then I'd have the eyes of the world upon me when I do what nobody else could do and find the hero inside of him, the one who, after all, really exists and is just waiting to be rescued. *Cough*. Get my drift?

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The answer is: "never ever again in my life”, and sadly these guys are easy to spot early on in the dating game and we ignore the signs, the RED flags. Bad temper guys start off dating with a really bad temper against the world - something has made him angry that day. It may be the traffic, their ex, their work, you name it: there is no limit to what upsets them. They will walk over anyone that crosses their path! You cannot change them because they believe they are always right, and everyone else is wrong. Everything and everyone else is to blame for their temper and they "have every right to be like this". They have some strange pride in their abusive behaviour! They will unashamedly admit that other people complain about their temper. They will even brag about how they "punished" their exes, by "making sure they never come back", or how they "made them walk home from the party they had a fight at", or worse - violence! They will eventually pick on you and disrespect you! The unfortunate reality is that they eventually start picking on you! You may start to get nasty sms's, emails or a call about how "they don't appreciate certain things", how they feel they are "being checked up on", or how YOU "ignored them by not calling them for the last 6 hours because they are feeling sick or neglected". They will not pick up the phone either, but they the ones who are privileged to have their needs served first above your own. They may drink, do drugs and flirt! These guys also seem to have little control over their other behaviours. They may drink excessively, they may do drugs, and they will flirt with strangers. They may flirt in public or just on the Internet, to them it is all “innocent”. They seem to feel it is right to do so. Irrespective of which they do, they disregard your feelings about it or how unethical (or illegal) any of it may be. They will eventually explode up on you as well! Then the day WILL come when they will explode on you. They will blame you for all the wrongs in their life, accuse you and insult you any which way they can. The accusations are irrational, they are unbelievable and may seem fractured, but the bottom line is that no matter what - it is YOUR fault! You will be accused of being selfish, incompatible, and any other excuse under the Sun. They will remain stewing in their anger for hours, sometimes days. They will withdraw away from you seething and blaming you, it was "your call" and not theirs. They may even try to “get back at you” (after all, it is your fault), they will do things that they believe will upset you, such as paying a bill (that both of you owe) late or even just uploading photos about their “wonderful life today” on the Internet (such as on a social network). They may even use their friends to do their dirty work for them. You may think you can help them, you may think that they will remember the good things you have done for them, but it will backfire - badly! Take my advice; these people are really bad news. Run away as fast as you can and do not look back, you deserve better.

He starts out with three strikes against him and you wanna let him walk - into your life? I don't think so! No, I would never date him. Just the bad temper and heavy drinking would be enough to put me off him.

of course. what do I look like?

I used to take that as a challenge. I know better now, and am thankful for the great guy I have.