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  • There are many non-verbal ways to show someone you like them. Start with treating them special, buying small gifts you know they'd like, or sending them short "thinking about you" emails about things you've seen you know they'd find interesting. Make yourself available -- suggest activities that you can do together -- or maybe you can get this special somebody to help you with something you need to get done. Don't become a nuisance -- you should evaluate the result of each gesture, and figure out when the time is right for the next gesture.
  • Try walking up to them and licking their face... (OK- no- don't do that!) just make sure you always tell them how pleased you are to see them, ask them how they are and really listen to their response. Flatter them, tell them they look nice, or you really loved the way they handled some situation - sit close to them, point your body towards them and maintain strong eye contact when you talk, even touch them now and then (on a hand or knee, or by sitting so your legs touch). Make flirtatious jokes, ask them to go to lunch with you in a "friendly" way, engineer you spending time alone with them- get their phone number and send little text messages or call "for a chat". Tell your friends you think they're cute. There are LOADS of ways.
  • constantly smile and look into their eyes when they talk to you...look away shyly after like 10-15 seconds, make jokes, give them compliments, touch them,
  • send him flowers.
  • That's called games and not a good way to start a possible relationship. There are subtle ways to let someone know you are interested in them. It seems to be a problem with people. Start a conversation with him and see if you have common interests. If you do then make some type of arraignment to do them together. Say if he likes a certain program after talking with him, just say maybe it would be nice to watch it together. See how he reacts, many times people misinterpret reactions and get confused as to what the other person really feels. So you have to use a few subtle hints. That still does not mean anything if they go unresponded to. Some people are very shy and afraid of rejection. So many men try to get close to a women when they are young only to be told they were liked as a friend which is like getting shot, one of the worst feelings of sexual rejection. Communication is the key and gentle hand to hand contact. If you touch his hand and he doesn't pull away you know he feels comfortable with you. Just because he pulls away doesn't mean he doesn't. If the subtle hints don't work but you don't get a complete rejection then you have to be a little more aggressive.
  • Always pretend to be smiling when together with him and keep mysterious and expressive eye contact!!!
  • Being touchy feely can go a long way..............
  • I don't know about other guys, but I usually get the hint when a girl pays attention things I say that I like. First thing to do is to really listen to the guy, he will mention things here and there that let you know what he likes. This could be anything from a particular Starbucks drink to some kind of food...just a few examples. Next time you meet with him you could give him whatever he might have mentioned in small talk. This shows you're attentive and understand what he likes. Now before someone goes saying that I'm expecting this from every girl I meet...I'm not. Its just a small thing I do myself to let girls know I'm interrested in them. If a girl told me she looooooooves the strawberry frappucino from Starbucks, I'd be sure to somehow go to Starbucks with her, ask her to find a seat whilst I get the drinks and return with a strawberry frappucino...which always surprises them. That's just one way to do it and from my experience being attentive works wonders.
  • We aren't mind readers. I recommend just telling him, or even asking him out. Lots of hints are wasted on us and create frustration for you.
  • give him... "The Look"
  • i am trying to do that also. But hum... The better aspect is that you won't lost your pride just using hints. But he can also just play a game with u and pretented known nothing if u do not tell him directly. humm, hard to make a choice. :)
  • be yourself. Ask him if he likes anybody first, then find out (if he does) who it is. if he likes you back, he'll probably say nothing or ask you first. but that's a maybe, i'm not an expert so just trust your feelings. find the right time and go for it.
  • It's like a big dance, if there is attraction you'll naturally show it so don't fake it. When two people are attracted the tend to mimic the body movement and such of the other. Eye contact is the same but if you really feel for this person, you'll express it or already have. You just might not know it yet.
  • I believe that telling him with time and touch will do the trick....... Time with him and letting him know without words that your there for him with whatever he happens to be going through,,Being empithetic works for us guys also. Touch~~~Even if its as simple as running ahead a little and grabbing his hand to lead him with you..Or offer a neck massage...You might get a good one in return... Being yourself around him is the most important thing.Have fun lil lady and he'll know.. Good luck ~~Zach~~
  • Grab him, Take him. make him your love slave. or you could try talking to him.
  • women enchain men by dancing,singing,playing,laughing,weeping and by their appearance,their touch and their questions.
  • This stuff is such a long tricky process... I would rather go for the face lick. Wouldnt that be nice if it was that frickin simple. Call me if you would like to skip the bull and do the face lick lol
  • Sorry, gotta a go with bj.
  • How about smiling and staring.
  • that's when the other person starts asking questions... how do i know if they like me or not. i would just go with the getting drunk and having a good pash
  • Send him a christmas card or holliday card, bake him cookies, etc., do him favors, smile alot, invite him along somewhere, run into him alot. You know, buy the book called The Rules. Maybe you should not ask him out. Wait until he makes the first move. Or, go ahead, and ask him to a movie, etc.
  • The invite to join in a fun activity of eight ball,darts and see how they react then ask about a movie of their interest.I was 42 when I married and the best thing happend for me I married my best friend 19yrs later we share her grandchildren the best word I hear and feel little arms around my neck and being called papa life just doesn't get any better than that. I hope everyone finds the definative one pray for it ask it will happen for you its not hopeless.
  • Body Language is the key. A lot can be said by the way you act towards someone
  • Life is too short tell him/her already!!
  • By your actions.

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