ANSWERS: 3
  • Tell your parents it's how you feel and they should respect you I'm sorry your parents place you on the spot about things
    • It'sDonna
      I don't mean to come across as rude or pretentious, in fact I appreciate the response, but that's what I've tried telling them, and they still continue to question me.
    • DancesWithWolves
      Yeah, I'm sorry you are facing this .. Maybe go with them to talk this over with a counselor .. You are a voice to be heard ..Your parents should be understanding of you and respect you.
    • frana
      Asad Shaukat Ali Malta
  • I think that instead of reading up on it and repeating what you've read in medical terms, just tell them in plain English, ie I look down and my body and it doesn't match the way I feel inside and I'm unhappy, say when you see your body it matches your masculinity your insides, well I feel the opposite. Then tell him what you want to do, ie Dad even if you don't get it, I want to get some counselling to see if that will help me. Dads don't always know how to handle this sort of thing, men are brought up to discuss feelings less than women.
    • frana
      Asad Shaukat Ali Malta
    • It'sDonna
      That's actually something I should try, Thank you. I can't say I haven't tried to not explain in medical terms to him, so that might help
    • Creamcrackered
      It's worth a try :)
    • DancesWithWolves
      Donna, sorry I couldn't do more and don't trust these people who send spam to you or write in another language cause Lord only knows what they are saying to you?
    • Creamcrackered
      I put it on google translate DWW, but it didn't show anything.
  • You don't have to prove it to them. Chances are you're just confused and caught up in the "I can get attention by being different" thing. Try being different by achieving something. Do something good for someone else. Get outside your own self for a while. Have you talked with your school counselor? Or anyone with a degree to diagnose you? Your parents might be more likely to listen to them.

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