My boyfriend tells me he loves me and doesn't want to be without me, I am even having his baby. But I found him signed up for two personal sites in the last 2 months saying he is "looking for love". Whats the best thing i should do?

I broke up with my last GF for the same thing. He probably thinks it's just harmless fun, so you need to make him understand that it is not, and it hurts you. If he continues, you have some decisions to make, and I don't envy your position. Good luck, hopefully he loves you enough to stop.

Hey I know this is a year later but, y boyfriend is constantly lieing to me, and I just found out he put his information on two sexual dating sites. He didn't message anyone, but browsed through pictures & requested to meet women with dirty fantasies. What dya think about that? Did it work with your bf after?
Mine admitted to it, and has apologised and said it was a drunken error, he's also deleted one of his email addresses. But does a leopard ever change it's spots??

If you love him and you think there is hope and you want to try maybe you should sign up too and not let him know. Try to get a "match" with him and show him what attracted him to you in the first place. Maybe it could end like the pina colada song.......

Dump him while you still can

He might be looking for someone to run away with because he's scared of haveing a kid. Or your relationship isn't "fun" anymore, and he's wants to have a "fun" girlfriend on the side that he dosen't need to take care of or talk to.

This question was posted almost a month ago. I am interested in what you decided to do.....

you should still see what his proublem was with you that he needed to look for love and fix it if you havent already can you help me with my proublems too

Sooooo, now that it's been 2 years, what finally happened. BTW: Did the rest of you ever consider that he might've deleted his old address simply because you knew it existed, and would want to know what e-mails had (howclose to a real hookup offline, and what he said) and were going to and from it STILL?

So all he has to do is start over with a new one you DON'T know...and yes, he would be more careful...lots more careful. What a bonus it made him look so contrite and sincere, too...A guy or girl who'd put up an ad is thinking of leaving, even if he wasn't quite ready yet. Meanwhile he's lying to the women who write him from the moment he put up that ad, pretending to be single. Otherwise he obviously feels entitled to a few extras on the side who don't know about each other other, either. I hope you found the site "narcissisticabuse.com" and ran while you still could.