Is my cousin being callous?
15 years ago, my cousin's daughter died when she was only 3 months old. 10 years after she died, I went to her grave, and I was shocked to find that she still did not have a headstone! I made a promise at her grave that she would get a headstone one day. I started a fundraiser, and my best friend, my church friends, my mother, the baby's grand and great-grandmother all gave money, including the baby's godmother and an old friend of the family. Except for a few people, everyone in the family gave money--except for the baby's mother. I see her on Facebook having fun at clubs, but she won't give one cent towards her own daughter's grave. I know that it hurts her deeply to think about her daughter, but is she being selfish, and should she have a say in the headstone planning?
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Mr. Man
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All I can say is that headstones are not important to everyone. Her daughter may have been important to her. I'd leave it be.
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