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  • I wouldn't wonder so much about whether he's interested or not. A girl can drive herself crazy that way. If you are on friendly terms, ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
  • Well for one, he may truly not be sure who he is interested in yet. Even so why don't you take the initiative and ask him out?
  • It may well be that he is shy. If he smiles at you and hugs you then it's not because he doesn't like you. Sounds like he does. Why not suggest you spend some time together? Maybe invite him over. Good Luck!
  • As a Mormon myself, I suggest he is probably focusing on preparing for his mission which will be coming up within 3 years. You are not Mormon, so you have little chance of gaining his romantic attention because of other distractions, if he is devout as most Mormons are. I suggest that you take advantage of the situation that you are offered and ask him if he would like for you to attend church with him and his family. If you aren't willing to do this, or if your family prohibits it, you have a grim future with him. Don't expect PDAs with him at first, but don't mistake that for thinking he's not interested in you - he's 15 and his young juices are flowing, but his upbringing is powerful and he will respect that first. Mormon boys do have girlfriends, not all of them Mormon - you can count on that, and mixed Mormon+non-Mormon marriages do exist, but the faith is powerful and you have to work *with* it and within its constraints regarding behavior. Once you get accustomed to the rules (e.g. no:coffee, tea, alcohol, smoking, cursing, sex outside of marriage, lying, stealing, or deception, and always being mindful of the Ten Commandments and other guidelines), you will learn that they will work for you and your life will be better for it, as twelve million living Mormons will attest, and more who have passed on. Remember, at age 15 he is an Elder in the Church, and it's important.
  • In a sense, you can do whatever you want. He's not supposed to be dating though. However, what he ought not be doing apparently is not what drives him right now. That should be a warning sign for you. For that reason I would suggest not making a move. Sometimes boys will be boys and grow out of young foolishness, but I don't think that's a reason to pursue fools.
  • he is probably shy. i think he definitely likes you.
  • hi even if he doesnt say that he likes you he does he might be shy just give him time and try talking to him as much as you can.
  • well.. it might be because mormans do nto start to date beofre they are 16.. if you liek him enough.. why dont you wait until you are both 16 and ask him out????
  • if he's really religious and his family is he's not going to date anyone who isn't Mormon...
  • im fifteen, and i was shy like that too. I kinda still am. But i know he probably likes you. Ask him out!
  • I'm afraid the poor boy was abused as a child by a religious leader and is unable to express human affection. He will live his life as a virginal tradesperson who rudely awakens innocent people at seven in the morning without a care for their obvious hangover.
  • he likes someone else other than you cause you know how other girls are around? (he's just confused) so give him time to think about the question then ask him again the same question
  • I'm sure he's just not allowed to by his parents to date before 16 and is afraid to blurt out that he likes you. After all, he probably doesn't want his friends to think Mormoms are hypocrits since there are so little of them and people expect them to be perfect and sinless.
  • I have a feeling he likes you, because that is my exact response when the girl I like asks me that question. I could be wrong of course since everybody is different.
  • i believe its because he is mormon. I know someone who, was dating a mormon but his parents made them breakup because she wasnt or he wasnt aloud to date yet.
  • he likes you seriously hes just shy and is kinda is giving u the hints that he does he probely wants u to act on his body language before he makes a move
  • Um... *scratches head* I think you should find out where he stands when it comes to God. Seek Gods will is my advice. He says not to be unequally yolked with unbelievers. If this guy doesn't believe in Jesus and love the Lord, you prolly shouldn't pursue a relationship with Him. I know this trust me. Just find out what God thinks. :D
  • I would stay away from him so that you aren't encouraged to join a church that "preaches another gospel" other than the one preached by the original apostles. The apostle Paul warned us about them a long time ago- and here they are.
  • A girl of 15 is generally speaking three years older in maturity than a boy of 15. He is probably too young to know how he feels. Maybe it is best just to give him his space and treat him like a friend.
  • speaking from experience, 15 year old boys are shy. They are also scared to death of rejection. Why don't you just tell him you like him? That would make it a lot easier for him to admit he likes you.
  • You're too young to know what the mormons are about. Find another "real" Christian boy and you will have a better chance of being happy with him.
  • he might be afraid to tell you 1) because maybe you talk alot to your friends and he's afraid it'll get out or 2) he secretly likes you. if he likes you then eventually he wont be able to keep it a secret and he'll tell you. just wait for the right time (:

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