What should I do? I found some pills ,my husband has some problems with this how do I confront him without an explosion! He is in denial for sure, he will blow up as before. Can anyone help me by say the right thing?
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luc
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First off, I'm sorry that you have to go through a situation like this. It can be VERY tough. Good for you for being strong and are willing to confront him about this and not let it just slide under the rug. I think that getting at least one person, maybe even two to be with you while you talk to him is good. If he's on pills, and you said there might be an explosion, you don't know exactly what he's capable of, be it hurting himself or you or someone else. Also, if there's someone else there, they can explain their viewpoint and won't think you're attacking him. As to what to say, I suggest telling him that you love him and you want to help him and be here for him, but you can't do that if he won't help himself. And then take it from there. The other people, like a brother and or sister, mother or father and friend will probably help put things into perspective and you can discuss points you would like to make. I just truly believe that the most important part is to tell him that you love him and want to help. Good luck!
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Go to this site (http://settingcaptivesfree.com/home/) and you can have a confidential expert on your side! Also, there is no substitute for the prayer of God's children. They will pray for you and your husband at that ministry. We all need Jesus Christ more than ANYTHING, but sometimes we don't realize it until we have a problem. I will pray for God to bless your family, luc. Feel free to conatct me at youandiwin@yahoo.com for support. I found you (actually babyccat) in the travel section originally because we help others save on travel or make good money with travel, but we pray for God to lead us to people we can help every day and we put no conditions on it! Bottom line, turn to God. But get help from godly people you know (and trust to be discreet) because God uses people. You may want to call (and get your husband to call) 1-800-need-him.
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From personal experience with this problem, I can say that you will never avoid an explosion, no matter how hard you try and how much you dance around the issue, eventually it will get to bad and YOU will explode, not the other way around. (My mother use to be addicted to soma and vicaden, trust me when I say it, you don't want to wait) The best way to do it would be to inform him that he should speak to a doctor (from what I remember, my mother took something that all but eliminated withdrawal symptoms) and MAKE him go to the doctor, drive him yourself and watch him go in.
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I'm surprised you found them, were you looking or did you just run across them. If you just happened on to them, he's feeling pretty much in control. Control of you. If he won't go talk to someone i highly suggest you do. Yes, you. You need someone to talk to, something is blocking your view, is this the life you really want? You might not be able to help him, but you sure can help you. Don't let this problam he has hurt your mental health. Go talk to someone, ask your doctor for some ideas, no one will know. I wish you luck, i wish you wisdom! ((((((((Hug)))))))
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