No, some people are just more forward than others.

I always thought of it that way. That's why I don't put up with dating anymore.

I would say yes... moving much too quickly in my opinion.

Not necessarily. Maybe they have just felt a strong atraction to you and want to kiss you. Kissing on the first date does not have to lead to sex and it does not mean you are easy.

There is no script to dating.. if there was, how boring would that be. What may seem unsuitable in one moment.. may be fine in another. If two people feel a pull towards each other on the first date and want to share a kiss. .. what is the problem? Unless, they are feeling it all by themselves in which you can politely let them know you are not feeling what they are feeling yet. If you are caught in a moment where you want to kiss them too.. do it. But move on to getting to know each other and not hang around the sexual attraction area. Just keep in mind that once intimacy has taken place.. it can lead the other to "assume" it safe to continue doing so. If you are not ready for deeper intimacy.. avoid the hands/mouth on moments until you are ready. The most fun I ever had in dating was the build up and play of it all. Mindplay.. getting to know each other and having fun with the attraction but not letting it interfere in getting to know each other. The eyes telling the attraction but the mind controlling the game of dating in which you get to know the person and find out if you want all of them to touch all of you.. not just the sex parts.