I am 17, and I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. We have done it three times now, everytime we do it, it hurts and I haven't felt pleasure. I'm not worried, scared or nervouse, so what is the problem? When am I going to feel the pleasure?
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ANSWERS: 7
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No, probleam just enjoy it. But be carefull, so u don,t get pregerancey.
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Sounds to me like you are jumping into it too fast. Are you spending the time to get warmed up and lubed up prior to having sex ? It's very important that he take enough time to get you sexually excited and ready to except him inside your body. Most guys just want to jump on, cum, and get off. The pleasure for you, will only come when he spends the time to insure that you are proplerly excited, and stumulated too. Demand it, after all it's your body !!!! PeeNut
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Your vagina might be very small, or his phallus could be too big for you. I suspect that Pee Nut is right, and that he isn't doing what he should in the way of foreplay, getting you aroused, all hot and wet and ready. But you could be one of those rare women who have dysmenorrhea. See your gynecologist right away. Oh, I forgot: you're too young for that, and too young to be having sex in the first place. But see your gynecologist anyway.
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the most likerly thing is that your vagina is'nt wet enouth you should try more fore play before you have sex you could also try useing lube,the other possibilty is that you have a very tight vagina.good luck i'm sure it will improve.
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you should get some lubricant and get your boyfriend to fist you before sex, this will loosen u up
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you need 2 get turned on he has 2 find ur g-spot by eatin u out fingering u or anythin of the sort trus me when he finds ur g- spot u can go on 4 a verry long time
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Sounds like you need more foreplay!
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