A guy I met a week ago definitely acts like he likes me...he gave me his cell, and I called him so he has mine now. He says I can see him whenever I want to. Why doesn't he just ask me out on a date? What's going on?
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yoyogirl
ANSWERS: 14
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Perhaps he doesn't want to scare you away by chasing after you too quickly. Or, maybe he's shy. Either way, there's nothing preventing you from taking the initiative.
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I agree with the other guy, he prolly just didn't want to seem desperate or chase you off. Though it would be funny if he just thought of you as a friend and then you went and asked him out. :)
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umm he Fears rejection! Most guys are a bit insecure when it comes to asking women out.
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He's waiting for you to speak up ! Go for it and good luck !
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He's cheap or broke. Sometimes you have to pay to play.
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he is playing cat and mouse and he is the mouse. you have 2 choices, ask him out or pretend like this is 1954 where men are still proper. men don't do the asking anymore, women are in control, take what you want girl and stop waiting. He is waiting for you to chase him, hello!!!
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Sounds like he's shy. If you want him to make the move, you might have to wait a bit longer and get to know him better. If not, go ahead and ask him! Listen to the feeling in your gut. Sometime's it's right! Hope this helps.
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i think your dealing with a guy who is shy. but thats kinda a good thing. he is the type of person whose really never had a girlfriend or doesnt know how to approach a women in that case he doesnt know how to tell you he wants to take you out. you should throw hints like "i would love to go to the movies" or "i always wanted to go to that resturant" things like that. thats when he will eventually ask you. just remember it takes two.....(C'u)
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Well, it could be a lot of things. He might not have any money. He might be affraid you will say no. He might be affraid of coming across like a jerk. He might be affraid that asking you out will mean having to have sex. Maybe he is affraid that he cannot please you in bed. Maybe he is having second thoughts. Maybe he is a flirt and talks up a big game but then has trouble moving on (failure to launch!). What did he say when you called him. Invite him over and cook him dinner, if you can cook, that is. Go for a walk in the park. Do things that cost no money. After the third date, if he has not tried to kiss you, then move on. Don't expect him to make a bold move and try to get you into bed. Sounds like he is a gentleman or shy and would not do that for awhile.
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Guess he kinda indirectly asked you out by letting you pick the date/time when you want to see him! If you were interested then the logical response to what he said would've been "how about this friday?"
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Yeah he is shy..so ask him non chalantly "What time are you picking me tonight? " and see what he responds...
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I agree with most of the answerers so far. It definitely sounds like he's shy. He could have been hurt in a past relationship, and wants to take it slow. I guarantee you nothing is going to happen if you don't make a move. Go for it!
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Yeah he's not shy at all - dont know where you tards are getting that from. He's looking to see if You're interested in him before he makes a move and gets shot down
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It sounds like he's put the ball in your court and is waiting for you to make the move so that he knows you're interested. He may be shy (sometimes I think guys are not always the confident Lotharios that they pretend to be). Why not suggest a day for you both to get together?
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