im not married and have no plans to marry ever. so i dont regret it

No, I don't wish I had waited until marriage, but I wish I would have lost my virginity to someone I cared more about in a more special way.

No. All of my sex has been premarital, since I've never been married, and I say no. I do not regret any of it. I have always cared for the people it has happened with. I don't think a piece of paper makes a difference in how my sex feels.

As of now, I do not regret it. My boyfriend and I are still together, and very much in love. Each and every time is special to us. If we end up getting married, I'll have no regrets. However, I can't say whether or not I'll regret it if we happen to break up. At this point, I don't think I'll ever regret it because of how special of a bond we have right now. I honestly feel like we'll always be friends, if not bf/gf or husband/wife.

I don't regret it at all. I feel that I needed to get that wildness out of my system so that I wouldn't feel the need to experiment while married - I think that's why a lot of people end up really unhappy. They don't take the time to "find" themselves and figure out what they do and don't like.

I have had a pile of both pre marital and marital sex. All of it was and is good. I learned alot before I got married. I would not want someone that had not had a sexual experience before me, as a wife. After awhile of having the same person, they are bound to wonder what its like with someone else. I have the advantage, I know what its like. I know there is better out there... and there is worse. Im happy with myself.

no i dont regret it i guess i was gonna say kinda what Penny was saying its been special and with special people and i would never take that back but i also agree a little with shelby my first time wasnt my greatest time but now that i found my soul mate every night is so wonderful and i wouldnt change that for the world

I do regret it... I have waited until the wedding day to have sex with my fiance, but unfortunately we both have a past before we met where we haven't been so committed to waiting.

I would just rather have waited to share that first experience with him...

I do regret it. Deeply. While it was enjoyable, I regret that I will not have something pure to give my husband whenever I find the man I will marry. There is no part of me I can give to him that another man has not seen before. I guess I fear that I will not be special in his eyes and that I will be unworthy or dirty. I know people say your future spouse should love you enough that it does not matter and that the vast majority of American citizens have had premarital sex so chances of ending up with someone inexperienced is really low anyways. It's just that Sex is an amazing portrayal of love and whoever I marry will know that I loved someone like that before him...It is not a strong basis for a marriage. I have actually been contemplating if I will even ever tell him...whoever he may be.

Would you buy a car without test driving it. What is everything in a relationship was absolutely perfect. you have sex and you or the other find it to be the most distasteful, disgusting thing you have ever done, but you or the other had the opposite reaction. Do you or the other stay in a relationship that you know will not include sex. Sex MAY very well be the strongest physical/emotional link to a relationship. Would you want to enter into a contract for life (which it IS supposed to be) without any information about the contract? Not me and with no regrets. My wife feels the same.

I'm not married yet, but I deff. plan on sleeping with my future wife before we tie the knote. You need to know if the chemistry is there. Of corce that is not the only thing you base it on, but it does play apart in it. If you truly love someone the sex with that person will be unlike anything else. You have got to remember that you are going to be spending the rest of your lifw with this person. You have to explore every aspect of a relationship to make sure it's right.

I think those feeling guilty due to regious practrices and conservative people would regret. Why sould I regret when my religion restricted me to enjoy vast happiness through out my life. The truth was that I regret all those years because I had had not enjoyed my sex freedom during my teenage years until got marriage at 18. My husband married me fully not because I was virgin or not. Through out of 10 years marriage with him until this moment our life still wonderful, of eight straight years of these marriage years, he's the only guy I had slept. But because he loved me so much and wanted me to be more adventures, he wanted me to be fully fulfilled. He talked and discussed to me how sex is fun and more exciting when you slept with another guy. He had tried persuaded me to enhance my sex experience with other guy in my choose as long as I will be backed home before the day and report all details. I discovered how true is it and that sex is really great. My life for me now is more wonderful and thankful that I have an understanding husband. I loved him and do everything for him as he wants me to do to make our married more strong and last forever....

I wouldn't have wanted to wait till I got married, but I definitely would have wanted to loose it to someone I cared much more about. Sad, but true.

I do not regret haveing pre-martial sex. What I do regreat is wateing intell I was 23. I played with viginas and went down once when I was nine but did not start going down and fingering a lot of girls intell I was 20. If I had it all to do over instead of fingering 23 going down on 11 and sleeping with three girls before marriage. I would have fingered ever girl that I kissed, went down on every girl I went on a date with and sleept with every girl I called my girlfriend. There is a reason that sex before marriage use to be very dangerous, hurt many lives and changed girls for worse for the rest of their lives. All of those reasons are still here but preventable now. Condoms, birth control,sex ed,and porn have made it to where you can prevent unwanted children watch inturn prevent abortions,std are prevented and everyone knows that sex is lust and not love. You can and often will lust for people you love but its still about geting off. I have never and would never sleep with a virgin. If I realy loved her I would have her use dildos and vibrators for months before we were married. That the only way I would.

Not at all.