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  • I MEAN YOU'RE ONLY 11!!! NORMAL??? YES.. NORMAL PUPPY LOVE!!!! LET'S BE REALISTIC... YOUR'RE 11... HE'S 21...IT WILL NEVER WORK... JUS BEING HONEST SWEETIE...
  • It is normal. It is called infatuation. (commonly called "a crush") It is not truly "Love" - it is not possible for you to have a truly committed adult relationship at your age. You should enjoy the feelings - but do NOT allow anyone to convince you to engage in adult activity because of them. Talk to an adult you trust about the feelings. They will understand. They may laugh a little - but it is not them making fun of you - it is because they are remembering when THEY had a crush and how it felt and how it made them feel. Talk to that adult and let them help you explore the feelings and understand them better. Crushes are good , fun things, but they are not feelings that support a long-lasting, adult relationship.
  • I would think this is more of a crush. He is too old and no offense, if he was interested in you, it would be in a sadistic way.
  • Ohk so there is an age gap of 10 years!!! Thats technically ohk! But what matters is that you are 11! An age where you'll keep having crushes and yes some for as long as 2 years or more! SO i think have fun while you have these feelings! its fun! I miss having crushes (I'm committed) Say 5 years from now if you still have feelings for him ,then you can consider asking or telling him! AS of now....Enjoy the eye candy! ;)
  • I have brothers who are older than me, so when I was little I remember having crushes on their friends.... Trust me, at the most, it's infatuation. You don't love him so definitely don't pursue it. A 21 year old is a lot different than an 11 year old. No matter how mature you are or how immature he is, this would never work. Even if it did, he could get in a lot of trouble since you are a very very young minor.
  • No and yes.
  • You might be or it might not be, but that's a bad age to decide, because most people get really big crushes around that time, what with hormones... but who knows. And why do you have to decide now? I'd say it is.

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