If you really did'nt like someone and they really needed your help, would you help them or leave them hanging?
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ANSWERS: 20
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Leave them hanging. You don't like them.
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i'd prolly help them out. it sucks to be in a tight spot.
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I would help or else I would have a bad feeling with me for the rest of the day...
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I'd help them. I'd feel bad if I didnt. Plus they now owe you a favour.
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I'd help them if it was an emergency..
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i think it depends like auntie em says depending on the situation and events that occured, it would really depend to me maybe, maybe not.
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I would help them out. I had an occassion with someone, who I never did anything to and they treated me very badly because they thought I was the blame. Over time I have walked in forgiveness, although it was very hard but I let them know if they needed help with anything let me know. I'm not close to them either. But I know that we are all human, and we all make mistakes. I would say help comes first before self.
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It is very easy to help someone without getting personally involved. If you don't like them, that is your own problem, not theirs. Call the proper agency and they will do the job for you. That is what we pay our taxes for, so we don't have to get our own hands dirty.
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I would always help someone in need if I can. It's my nature to be kind and unselfish to everyone; so I would help them.
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I am kinda in that situation now but i am still helping them. I dont terribly dislike them but... its complicated. Hope i helped! :)
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If it was just a personality trait and they had never done anything wrong to me and mine I would do what I could to help.
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I might help them in one area but I might undermine them too.
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i would always help them out....i understand and empathise with the pain of being left helpless
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if I had good reason to dislike them and their life wasn't at stake, I'd leave them hanging
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Well, it would depend on what they needed help with - burying a body? Perhaps not... But it also depends on the kind of person you are. I'm the kind of person who has an irritating habit of seeing the best in everyone despite how badly they've screwed with me and I have a stupidly large capacity to forgive people for the most horrendous acts upon me. So, even if I didn't like someone, as long as it wasn't compromising me legally, I'd help them. Also, if I was in a position where I was able to help, I would. I pretty much like everyone till they do something to earn my dislike and even then it's got to be pretty bad. I think that to do otherwise and not help when I was able to, would be sinking down to their level and I try to live by a motto of treat others how you want them to treat you - this includes offering assistance when I'm in a position to do so.
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If I just didn't like them because of a personality conflict or something like that, I would help them. If I didn't like them because of something they did to a friend or family member...they're own their own. (Unless it was life threatening..then I would do my best to help them regardless).
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In an emergency, I would not think much and just help, but possibly avoid to take too high risks. In other cases, I could ponder the situation: Why do they really need my help? Is their life threatened? Could someone else also help? Do I put myself in danger or take some kind of risk by helping? Does it costs me something, like money, time or energy? What does "really dislike them" mean? Hate them? What I would be ready to do for someone would diminish: - the more I dislike them, - the less they would risk without the help If I don't have to sacrifice much, I would help about anyone. If they murdered my child, I would in many cases leave them hanging...
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I'd help no matter what.
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I'd help them...but then I wouldn't expect anything in return. Usually once someone crosses me, I'm pretty much quits with them. I wouldn't rely on them if I needed help.
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People in need, are people in need.
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