Is love a choice? or does it just happen
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um... that's a hard one... sometimes you can get lovesick, or maybe it is a choice...
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it just happens! It's like shit. Shit happens, love also happens!
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I think it just happens like every feeling i think thats something you have no power on. when you are supposed to feel something you feel it theres no logical explanation.
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If we are talking about marriage, I think Love is a choice. In a wedding we are given the choice "To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part." In order for anyone to do this, they must wake up every morning and choose to love. You decide if it is worth it all... Also, in a relationship outside of marriage, where there is a commitment to each other; If a couple "in love" is having problems, both parties have the choice to leave or to stay. You weigh your pros and cons and make a choice. Same goes with being unfaithfull... it is a choice. Love is not infatuation and Love is not attraction; these are important aspects of love, but they are not true love.
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We don't have the option of turning love on and off (though some folks can, but they have "issues" that normal people don't have). But we DO have control on whether to act on it or not, such as if you get feelings for someone who is married.
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it's a choice.
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Considering that it took me time to get over past boyfriends, i'd say it just happens. I'd never choose to feel that sad. And if i could choose to love someone, i'd have already fallen in love with some great people i know. Unfortunately, it doesn't happen that way
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Love is a choice. Think about the older times of arranged marriages. How did those marriages last? They chose to love each other. They may have not been initially attracted to the other or had feelings for the but they made it work. Love is viewed so different today. It's viewed so carnal, as infatuation, when it has nothing to do with that.
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it happens.. and then we choose to act upon it..
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Maybe we are powerless over the feeling, though I believe we have the choice about how we then act.
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I don't know if we each have a destiny, or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze, but I, I think maybe it's both... Forest Gump
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yes. it just happens and it is a choice. very few people actualy know how to make the choice though. I can not choose to love when there is nothing, but I can choose not to love and I can choose to make love that exists grow. kind of like a plant, but that is just me
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I think that if the chemistry is there you are going to love weather you want it or not!!! Love is a powerful thing and I don't think that anyone can stop themselves from loving!!! Just like I cant stop the fact that I still love my ex.... I hate the decisions that he makes but I still love him!!!
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