I just think it's nasty. What's the point in watching it.

mine does... and it doesn't bother me in the least. It's fantasy. purely.

As long as he doesn't get "lost" in it.

who cares. It come in handy when "I have a headache"

If youve ever been in the same room as people having sex then you have no problem watching porn male or female. I dont see why people get botherd about it, if we dont watch it you know were thinking about it, and thinking leads to bad things. Lets look at it this way you think up your perfect male/female in your head then put them in your biggest fantasy OR you stick a porno on and they waych it thinking only of the people on the screen in a simple sex scene. I hope that made sense

I have never understood why people feel the need to watch it..my opinion only but I think it's disgusting.

That's the least of my worries. He's not obsessive about it, and neither am I.

I actually like the fact that my guy watches porn, we live together and I'm not always up for it, so he has a way to take care of himself without leaving the house. Porn is a wonderful thing.

It would bother you if it went past watching and turned into a full-blown addiction that he couldn't control, no matter how hard he tried. It would bother you then, believe me.

porn is ridiculous.. all the grunting and groaning and bodies slapping together.. would put me to sleep

I wouldn't care. They'd watch it or not watch it whether I like it or not anyway. I just don't find it to be a big deal. *shrug*

I wouldnt care :)

I don't really care. Its not like everytime I walk in the bedroom I catch him glued to the screen watching porn. Its a good outlet for him when I'm not in the mood.

It bothers me because that means that he's lying when he says I'm the only girl he ever thinks about. Man's love for porn makes me feel like that sex is such a big part of his life that he doesn't even know who I am or even care for that matter. If he loves me like he says he does then why is he thinking about other girls?

No, it would not bother me.

It wouldn't bother me if he did because I'd probably watch it with him. But we dont seem to have any use for porn right now.

i would care because its very degrading to eveyone involved would you want you love life to be one of those stoy lines and would you do everything in those movies and feel good about yourself

Back when I had a significant other it was still kinda weird watching it with her. I hardly engage in such things anymore and i don't have one piece of porn anywhere on my computer or put away somewhere.

nope i don't care if your bf watches porn

Not if I'm watching it with him (husband)...... :oX

I hate it so much I don't even allow it in the house. To me it's degrading and I have no interest in a man who finds entertainment in degrading another human being. Especially not sexually. And I sure as hell don't believe it when a woman says her partner engaging in this doesn't bother her. Blarney. If it didn't bother us it wouldn't come up so much. I think all the excuses we use to make it okay are a load of rubbish. To me it just proves he's sexually insecure and unable to commit. I don't believe they need it to fantasize. Good lord, you have a brain use it. I know for a fact it doesn't keep them from cheating. Been there, tried that, got cheated on. I don't believe it's healthy in any way. Nor do the experts who have actually studied the effects of it. This is how it goes in my realationship. If I'm too tired or am unaviable, since I'm rarely not in the mood when I have a partner, then he needs to respect that and wait till there's a better time. Just like I would for him. If there's some thing he wants then he needs to tell me about it or do without. It's his own damn fault if he can't talk to me about his needs. If it's something I'm not comfortable with it then he needs to grow up and deal with it. You don't always get everything you want when you ask for it. If he's going to tell me I'm the only one he wants to be with then he better show it. Looking at porn says the exact oppisite. I want full fidelity and honesty and if he's not going to give that to me then there's the door.

my lady don't ...she watches it more than I do ...lol naughty wench !

couldn't care less i like watching it with him...

couldn't care less i like watching it with him...

Nope don't bother me

It doesn't bother me at all if your boyfriend watches porn.

Nope, your boyfriend can watch all the porn he likes it doesnt bother me :o)

Never had any choice in the matter. Porn doesn't bother me though.

No i dont care if your boyfriend watches porn.. LOL:D

It never has bothered me... my ex and I watched it together actually. It's all just fantasy and as long as it's not an obsession there's no problem with it.

I would watch with him (if I had one).

no. I am not bothered if your boyfriend watches porn, have him wash his hands a lot please.

My problem with YOUR boyfriend watching porn? No... My problem with MY boyfriend watching porn? maybe...

We both enjoy, together and seperately.

Honestly I don't care if your boyfriend or mine (though Im currently dating a woman, I don't see it lasting.) watches porn. As long as it isn't effecting our sex life then go ahead and watch whatever you want as long as it doesn't involve kids or animals.

Nah...keeps him occupied while I do what I want to do ;o) He's going to be back to see me later anyway.

Porn is great, especially when it is done together and some of the positions are tried while watching...mmm! I have no problem seeing my husband masturbate to porn let alone watching it... it turns me on! Ok... I sound like a twisted sicko now. hmm...lol!

Don't have that problem. We have better items to use than videos and I like it that way.

I am on the edge. I know from a good friend how porn addiction can ruin a relationship, but my husband doesn't seem to be addicted he just watches a few times a week. the thing i don't understand is that i am willing to do anything for him you know in bed and so it kinda hurts my self esteem.

not at all- it benefits me i rather him do that then go out and cheat on me.

It would bother me if my boyfriend watched porn.

I don't give a flip if your boyfriend watches porn

I don't think I'd mind...infact I'd like to join him when he watches it! :D

it's better if you watch it with him

it does bother me bcoz if he wants 2 please himself he has pics of me...y not look at them? my partner watched porn with his x girlfriend but i dont like it he always says if he masterbates he thinks of me and i like that thought! i accused him once as it was on the tv...he denied it and had good reasons of y it happened 2 b on and some ppl will dissagree but he was truthful!

Not at all! I would join him:)

no i dont care either, i already know he watches it...

If he is your boyfriend - and you don't care - that's one thing. If you are going to marry this man - and have kids with him - you'd better decide up front what you want your life to be like. Certain things seem fine when you are young, not raising a family, and life is very laid back. But you have to understand that anything you may not like about a person before marriage can get worse afterwards. Could you live with it if he were watching porn while you were pregnant? Could you live with it if he had a stash of porn in the house and you had kids? Could you live with it if his porn habit escalated to some really hard core material? Could you live with it if you were having trouble making ends meet and he was spending time and money on pornographic materials and/or in strip clubs? When you are dating, it's half fantasy - anything goes - but marriage lasts for years and some things get really old after a while.

No, i don't think it would bother me if your boyfriend watches porn,;)

I care only because it makes me feel like I'm not doing it for him. Even though I know he loves having sex with me becuase he tells me. It makes me feel like there is almost another woman.

Only if he refuses to let me watch.

I do not even know your boyfriend why would it bother me?

nope. id probably watch with him

it wil bother you when it will become an addiction. so many people been through this. including me, better to cut it out from the begining than deal with an addiction later on.

It hasnt bothered me until now, since I am in a very serious relationship with a guy who is addicted. I never thought about it, until I asked him to send me a link to the page. I saw some of it and was really disgusted and my self esteem gets really low thinking about him looking at other woman as if im not good enough. So it does bother me. It hurts.

ya.

i love to watch it with him. it makes it fun!!!! lol

Thank God there are some sensible women out there like you! As a hard-dicked man, sometimes porn is the easiest way to get off without bothering my lady. If I want to screw 5 times a day and she only wants it once, why should I lose out? (and equally why should she be forced into it?). Porn and masturbation provides a nice solution for seuxal mis-matches. Awesome that ladies like you do exist! Thanks!

I watch Women's Porn. Would that bother guys if there girl looked at Hot Naked Guys and got turned on, masturbated and orgasmed?

That doesnt bother me at all...its entertainment for him....it also comes as a great stress reliever sometimes.

I don't understand women who think they can control all aspects of a man's life... even his thoughts and fantasies. Some of the paranoid/controlling/insecure comments on here made me cringe. What an invasion of privacy! You ladies are headed for divorce. It's just basic human nature: when people are imprisoned, all they can think of doing is getting free. I'm sorry, but the tighter you squeeze, the more they will try to wiggle loose. My wife and I have been happily married for 15 years now, and we are still best friends. We have succeeded where so many others fail because we respect one another, and that includes privacy. I don't go through her things and she doesn't go through mine. We both have our own lives and then we come home together in the evening. I understand that porn can become an addiction to some men and women, and if it becomes a problem then the partner should speak up so that they can find a solution together. Maybe it's a problem with not having enough variety, or maybe it's about intimacy issues, but the problem should be treated in a way that doesn't make the victim of the addiction feel subhuman or ashamed. I'm sure there are ways to approach it besides flipping out and having a screaming fit. I'm sure there's counselling available. Or how about just sitting down together and talking about it like two mature human beings? I know that's not going to work in every case... maybe some guys just need to be clonked with a frying pan sometimes. But try to civil first... and realize that men are just wired differently that women. We are visually stimulated. That's why we have porn and not Harlequin Romance for Men. It's a problem when it interferes with his productivity, or he is not satisfying his partner sexually or emotionally, or he is spending too much time or money on it. Otherwise, chill out. Boys will be boys.

To all of you women that say porn hurts your self esteem, get over it. If you were a confident woman, you would watch it with him and be turned on by it too. There isn't a guy in the world that wouldn't love his woman to watch it with him. I am turned on by porn, and I only have been with women that are turned on by it too. To all the women who think their men are trying to replace them with porn, get a life! You just aren't sexual enough.

i would let my bf watch it..,cause thats one of his “entertainments”..and im sure u have urs to,i mean like its not like hes not liking your sex ,hss either learning new moves 2 use on you or hes just bein a guy:)

It won't bother me till it turns to addiction.

Awesome attitude