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by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on May 25th, 2007
I don't know about the men, but I don't judge people on the color of their skin. I've known some REALLY good looking people of other races than I am. You're a human before you're black, and you're totally as good as any white girl (or anyone else, for that matter.)
by Blank Savage on August 23rd, 2007
You mean women come is a different color than beautiful
by Vashtar on May 25th, 2007
I'd definitely date the right black woman just as I'd date the right white woman.
by Oddjob on May 26th, 2007
My girl friend going to be wife is African :-) Black is beautiful lol well at least she is beautiful in my eyes. If I met her as any race I would still have fallen in love with her. So dont question it, if you feel like you and someone click. See where that relationship might end up.
by Althea Randolf on May 25th, 2007
Isn't this a little bit of a racist question?
You can't generalize all white people like that, or ANYONE for that matter. Some white guys won't want to date you, and that may or may not have to do with the color of your skin, and some may very well want to date you. But the same goes for black guys, asians, mexicans, so on and so forth.
Just don't assume that because a white (or other) guy doesn't want to date you, it's because you're black.
by rhymer on May 25th, 2007
I couldn't care less what colour a person may be.
If I had been blind I wouldn't know anyway!
Unfortunately I'm a bit old to date ladies now and my wife (who is a colour) wouldn't be too pleased either!
Good luck anyway (and remember - it's the person that counts).
by Im Alec has abandoned this account on May 25th, 2007
Speaking purely for myself, I am quite certain that skin colour is simply not relevant. There are beautify black women as there are beautiful white women. There are nice black women as there are nice white women. It is the person that counts; skin is, most literally, superficial.
by abercrombe on May 25th, 2007
White guys dating black women is the new cool thing, at least in LA where I live. Your timing couldn't be better, RaeRae. Have fun and good luck!
by Michie on October 19th, 2007
White men date ME all the time, so I can't imagine that they wouldn't date you too. ^_^ Try to avoid the guys who just date other-race girls because they think it's cool to do so, though. There are guys that do that. Strange but true. Find a guy (of whatever shade) who likes you because you're you. Skin and everything.
by ak_spook on August 27th, 2007
im white and personally i love black women an average black girl to any one esle is beautiful to me and a beautiful black girl to any one else is a godess to me. i just love black women so much its crazy, its like im obsessed with them. i guess im wierd that way but i didnt think many black girls liked white guys.but in all yes i would date you.
by Ridiculous on July 30th, 2007
For me, a white guy, it doesn't have anything to do with race, I am simply not attracted to anything but white women.
Some mixed women are attractive to me.
I could however have a friendship with any woman regardless of race.
by ladylova 357 on July 30th, 2007
I am a white 47 yr old .. I just recently started a relationship with the most intellegent compassionate , loving woman I have ever met in my life . She is sexys , erotic and we almost fell in love immediatly ..She is 43 and black ..and yes I will spend the rest of my days with her .. This is my first interracial relationship ,,,and I consider myself the luckiest man alive to have found my true love . Some times you have to venture out of the familiar to find what we all are searching for .. So .,Yes ! I would have dated you ,but ,sorry ! I'm now spoken for ..
by 232499 on August 23rd, 2007
No sorry, It is not acceptable with friends, familey, environment.
by sourdough500 on August 22nd, 2007
I've dated Asians, whites, blacks (I'm married to a black lady and i'm white), and Latinos. Go for it. You're going to find one.
by Nelson - Jetpacking from bed on May 25th, 2007
I don't think my wife would appreciate me dating you (seeing as we're married), but race/color is (should) be really meaningless. If you like someone, you should like them for them. Ask someone out, worse that can happen is you will find out they are a racist, and you know that you won't go out with them.
by TJSpyke on February 2nd, 2011
I have a black girlfriend (I am white), so race doesn't matter to me. I don't know if I would date you (since I don't know anything about you), but your race wouldn't be an issue to me.
by cocodee on November 3rd, 2009
White men are not as open to dating black women because they are concerned of what their friends, families and society will think. They seem to be more into image than black men so that is why you don't see many white men with black women. A lot of them don't really know how to approach a black woman either because we are looked at as being too aggressive and sassy. But don't give up...if you like white men, hang out where they hang out at and be friendly to them. There are a few that will date us and not give a damn what others will think and those are the ones that are down to earth and cool.
by krazybabe08 on November 3rd, 2008
My Older Male Friend Loves Him Some Chocolate!! ..So He Tells Everyone :D soo YES!
by Kinkyk on September 19th, 2008
I guess my point is that is a lot more complicated than most people consider when you Start dating outside your race and not just b/c of "old fashioned" racism. I think what you might want to consider how supportive that other person is capable of being and your expectations of that relationship. A big problem in this kind of intimate relationship is that people who don't believe it's a problem (in their mind) can be completely blind and insensitive or when it becomes a problem (in Real life), only compounding your stress. And that like in any dating arena, unscrupulous or ignorant people will want to date you for the wrong reasons. "Curiosity, a.k.a."____ Fever" comes to mind. (Seriously, I just got called 'exotic' a few days ago, meaning "you're attractive AND of a different race (probably unidentifiable to this person) at the same time; I'm not sure what to do with that." And I don't even look Asian- it's usually Asian/Pacific-Island women who get that word in particular. So it's still out there. BTW, this was a perfectly nice, White young man, who just really doesn't know how to process race and how it relates to concepts of beauty. But embedded in the way he chose to "compliment" my looks was the concept of race. For those who aren't following, this is kind of like calling a Black man with 3 degrees in English 'articulate' with a tone of surprise in your voice.
Maybe what I'm saying is less obvious b/c we don't necessarily go around Saying out loud the sexual stereotypes about Black women the way we still say them about Black or Asian men, so they've gone underground a bit.
by kenyan5000 on September 18th, 2008
im a white male dating a black female, so of course i see nothing wrong with it and have no problems with it myself. but i know that there are plenty of white guys out there who know that color is only skin deep and personality is really what draws people in.
by UneFille on July 7th, 2008
That is ridiculous. Actually I did a research paper once covering this topic historically. If they seem not to like you they are simply attempting to hide their attraction because of ridiculous social bias.
I'm sure you will have no trouble finding a Caucasian man if you wish.
by Anonymous on July 6th, 2008
Whether I would date you is not the question.
Would YOU date ME?
by under_assertive on July 6th, 2008
Yes. I feel, for some unknown reason, that Black woman don't like white guys so I have historically kept my feelings about some black woman i've known to myself for fear of rejection and that it was somehow 'wrong'. I realise that this is stereotyping both blacks and woman in one swoop. I've been naughty.
by Rince on October 19th, 2007
I date a girl because of who they are, how they make me feel and loads of other stuff, the colour of the skin is not even on the list :-)
by MrBLT needs to be contained on August 23rd, 2007
I can't remember the last white woman I dated - well ok I CAN, I just don't want to - haha. Yes, I would date you :)
by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on August 23rd, 2007
no I wouln't date you but not because you are black but because you are an extremely physically attractive woman and I am just a geeky nerdy looking guy so unless you are a rare find I probably wouldn't be good enough to be your boyfriend sorry if I seem so pessamistic it's just that in my exce most beautiful women like you go for the hot macho sexy guys over the not so attractive geeky nerds
by Erebus on April 3rd, 2009
2nd Kings 5, Leviticus 13-15, and Numbers 12
by Holden McGroin on January 6th, 2009
Go for it, girl. But if you're going to hit on a white man, make sure he's a Democrat.
by Suonarelamusica on July 3rd, 2008
Are you kidding!! My cousin is white (blue eyes, blond hair and he's whiter than me) and he is super attracted to black women!! I'm sure there are loads of guys who feel the same way. Everyone has individual tastes. I have a similar problem, I'm white but I really love mexican men and I wouldn't be happy with a white American man, and where I live I rarely see interracial couples, but a lot of Mexican guys have told me that every guy is an individual, and you can't generalize. En gustos se rompen generos (there's no limit to people's tastes), andale.
by patrick on January 6th, 2008
i've been married twice once to german woman(white) and to a black woman both were beautiful in my eyes. if a man cares about himself more than you dump him of any color. good white men don't care about your color
by Takei-Shihan on December 21st, 2007
For me, personally, the skin color is not a plus or a minus ... I would blind date you once, just to see if we were compatible in any way ... from there it would all depend on how we felt about each other after our first meeting.
You may click my avatar and read my profile for a brief hint of what I am like.
by Amusingamazon on December 21st, 2007
I'd like to know more about your motivation for desiring to date white men. Is it solely because of the race? As a Black woman I would be (and have been in the past) offended by white men who wanted to date me out of "curiousity".
by Koz - Passion Perseverance Patience on August 23rd, 2007
If I had the opportunity I would however, our relationship would not last I'm afraid. My wife would force me to commit harikiri or do it for me. Of course, that would only happen if you in turn, would want to date me.
by AntigoneRising on August 21st, 2007
Some would, and some wouldn't. The ones who wouldn't aren't ones you want, anyway.
by Pervyrudeman123 on August 21st, 2007
Yes I would but then I love Black Girls MMMMMMMMMMMMMM.
by iwnit on May 25th, 2007
Nothing against black women, but I am married!
by scotty2006 on May 25th, 2007
If I wasn't married and we met up, If there was something that clicked between us, Then you bet and if it went far enough I would even marry you. But I am happily married sorry.
by J and B on May 25th, 2007
If you look like Tyra Banks, yes. If you look like Star Jones, no. I know, shallow.
by FreeRadical Jetpacking for Nelson on May 25th, 2007
The nice thing about dating is that you won't (typically) wind up dating someone who is too myopic and racist to want to be with you. My question to you is, why are you wanting white men in particular? How about a kind, smart, funny *anyguy* of any color?
by American idle on May 25th, 2007
Since when don't white men like black women?
by Ron C on August 2nd, 2009
Most guys I know don't care what color a woman is, I feel the same way. I just like them, I like the way they feel, the way they talk, walk, smell....everything. Color is just another aspect.
I have a vision of the future where everyone is just some shade of tan because all the races mixed together so racism is no longer an issue.
by Bill in Houston on August 2nd, 2009
I'm white and would date a black woman. They're beautiful!---And I'm not talking about a chocolate sex toy. I'd treat her as good as I'd treat a white woman. And if she was the right one for me, I would marry her.
by Anonymous on August 2nd, 2009
I am a single white guy living in Eastern Washington( the State), I do not look at what a person is but I look at who a person is, andf yes I would date you.
by markcahill1964 on October 14th, 2009
yes i`d date you in a flash your cute.
by markcahill1964 on November 4th, 2009
i have dated black women and colour is not important it`s a question of chemistry i think it`s more import to find someone you love and forget the colour question. ok i`m white but if i was chinese or indian or african my personality would be the same. look for love.
by Greekgod on May 30th, 2009
Well I married so the answer is no. But I definetly did not base my dating habits on colour. Of course this was not popular where I lived in South Africa
by barca on August 2nd, 2009
too right i'd date you, you're a real baby. i love all black women, tall or short, fat or thin, you're all gorgeous.
by Ron C on March 10th, 2009
I never dated a black women but I kissed a few. My wife, however objected but I don' think it was a racial thing.
If you want to date someone you like from a different race, go ahead, but don't do it just because they're white (or whatever color). My youngest daughter dated a guy from the middle east, he was a little tan. She dropped him because he thought women could be bought and should be subservient. Race didn't enter the picture, culture did. How you treat people is much more important than color.
by anonzo on May 11th, 2008
I am a white dude dying to date black girls. Such confidence and strength, so sexy. So hot. But all the black girls I see, there really isn't a chance to talk to them. All the black hang out in one place, and I have a military look so people think i'm racist or whatever.
by jellibaby on May 7th, 2008
hahahaa dis is 2 funni cos in my experience white guys luv dem some blak gals, but theres also the fear of rejection thing and the intimidation factor which may stop them approaching black women. when i go clubbing with my girls we get a drink and go straight to the dance floor to kill it because we know we can. not just the black guys but pretty much 90 percent of the white guys are watching with appreciation. black women have something different to offer any man.please not that i said different and not better.in no way am i insinuating that black women are better than white, but rather different. the guy am currently seeing has a preference for black women and when i asked him y this was he simply told me that we offer him something different, black women dont all look the same and are not striving to portray themselves like britney spears or girls aloud really, theres more variety to our looks and personality [his words not mine, and are not the oppinion of all white males] ofcourse theres the fact that he loves our curvier bodies, the way we move, our confidence our sttittude, he loves my culture but sorry hes mine hahaha. bt if you are really serious and interested in dating a white guy my advice is to give the man you are interested in as much encouragement as possible as most white guys believe black women dont date out of their race therefore dont wanna waste their time trying or dont wanna face rejection. my baby didnt need any encouragement but he has a lot of confidence and knows what he wants and goes straight for it, didnt leave me alone the night i met him, prior to him i'd dated majorly black guys [ a few white but nothing serious] hes definitely made me realise that the social and cultural barriers i believed where a big issue between white and black really arent an issue. he loves my culture, he even listens to some african music,loves african food snd respects our customs etc and i also embrace his culture and his ethnicity and love how he dresses proper preppy, love his family and their oppeness etc. dating isnt just about colour, its a mutual respect for one another and has to involve compatibility of minds interests and intellect otherwise all you are dating is a colour and not a person, this has been well long but i hope it has provided you and others with a bit more insight into the matter. my advice to people is to try new things you may believe its socially not acceptable by your friends, family / environment as some guy said but none of those people are dating the peron, you are the one therefore it is your decision and only yours. hahaha every race has its advantages, white guys more emotionally stable and comfortable, black women are very loving and intellectual and also have strong spirits. hahaha black men and white women also have their strong points but this aint about them is it? no so thats for another blog, lol
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Comments
I agree.... I used to have a black girlfriend. No problem -- the relationship didn't last, but not because of our skin colors.
by Stableboy on May 25th, 2007
Variety is the spice of life.
by Anonymous on May 25th, 2007
Petrus! :-)
by Stableboy on May 25th, 2007
I love that.. "You're human before you're black".
That was beautiful and so true. I would hate to be known only by the color of my skin. We are humans!
by Snooch on December 21st, 2007
Wow this sentence just was perfect.
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You're a human before you're black, and you're totally as good as any white girl (or anyone else, for that matter).
by Oddjob on January 9th, 2008
I love that sentence. It should go up on billboards all around the country-You're a human before you're black, and you're totally as good as any white girl (or anyone else, for that matter).
by Lostinspace on April 21st, 2008
yes,but you die when you are black and marry a whites,spiritually dead.white people don`t know where they come from or how they were made,and not a creation of God
by Eugene_T on September 18th, 2010