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  • easier said than done but what they say doesn't matter. see it may hurt your feelings, but an interesting thing to learn which sometimes takes experience to really see for yourself, is that we dont have to get hurt, because we dont have to allow what htey say inside. that times time ot see though and a new way of seeing things, and your feeling are totally normal and ok, like getting upset, realizing that its not your fault and stuff like that though helps. now it helps to think highly of yourself, and your already perfecth owyou are, you were born just fine. nobody hast the right to make fun of you and its a shame they waist htere time saying things that they really somehow think about themselves. thast teh things, it really doesn't matter what htey think because it comes from something going on in there head. and if necessary i'd find a way to tell them to knock it off when they make fun of you. thats never easy though. a good tip to feel better about yourself is to talk to yourself in the mirror though. tell yourself your beautiful or goodlooking, anything positive, or sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself and see i f you can let your feelings flow out of you because it is ok to feel whatever you feel, no matter what anyone else wanted you to beleieve .we have our own minds and are here to be happy, am i right or am i right on that one? lol ;-)..so yea defintely do what you gotta do to feel good. if you feel weird about the talking in the mirror thing thats understandable too..but i'd give it a shot. it helps me. and also you do look different, and they look different because nobody is the same, and thats ok too. sometimes i compare myseld too an dothers dont make it easier like those guys but they dont kno left from right and you deserves to talk to people who are kind ot you and there out there, there definitley out htere regardless of these people that may be making it seem more difficult. just think of the positives and your gaurenteed to feel better. - also, i got the talking to yourself in the mirror and some more specific stuff about that from a professional named lewis hay..shes pretty famous and myd dad introduced her teaching to me. she has a book called how to heal your life, or you can heal your life. and i've read it and found interesting things like that in there that help you to heal and or see things different or like yourself and good stuff like that and attract good things. so its out there if you want it. hope i helped and i didn't mean to elaborate i jus as i said, hope to have helped :-) let me kno what you think if you want..
  • Your a blooming monkey man! of course people are going to make fun of the way you look. But, they do this becuase they are dumb. They want to be dumb, so they do this. You must not let it bother you.
  • I think that people make fun of you because they are either jealous or wanna be like you. Don't take much thought into it.
  • They make themselves feel better by putting you down, just ignore it and you'll be way out of their league
  • They must be jealous of you in some sort of way. My friend is curvy, and she had a bad audition for the solo but she is still a good singer. She made the solo even though she stunk. She is a good singer it just wasnt her day. Now everyone is jealous that she made the solo instead of us, and the music teacher must think shes prettier than us. And to make themselves feel better, the compared themsevles to her and say well shes fat and she has a moustache just so they can feel better about not making the solo.
  • Their is always the possibility that you may look silly, but I haven't seen you, so I won't comment.
  • Change the colour of your hair and get some new clothes. Sometimes people stare at me,its no big deal. Tell them to have a nice day!
  • I have a fella who says he gets called fish face etc. I know it sounds funny but I have talked and talked to this guy, there is no point in dwelling on what other people have a comment to make about. if you dont have anything nice to say, they shouldnt say anything at all. Its their own insecurities making them so low! Feel good cos God made you like that, like God made me like this and its the person on the inside that counts and I REALLY believe this. I go for personality EVERY time. Dont let them sad acts ruin your confidence. They arent worth it! xx
  • Because it is the nature of fools to feel envy. Screw the mundanes. Take their insults and run with it. Once they see that you've chosen to not let their depridations hurt you they'll give up.
  • They do it, because deep inside, they are fearful that being different would be the end of them. They are just that shallow. They try to hurt you to punish you for reminding them of their own weakness. Don't let them. I gave a shirt to a "different" friend who was going through this same thing. It said: You laugh because I am different, I laugh because you are all the same. Feel better about yourself because you can and do handle being different. And because you are not them :)

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