What is a clever way to get a guy that I know likes me to call me instead of text or message?I like this guy and I know he likes me. But, he only text or messages me. Very rarely does he call. We talked once and had a great convo but he won't call again.
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why dont you call him instead of you always waiting for him to call. if he doesnt answer the call then maybe you should just wait for the next day. but messaging is good as long as you two are in communication level. good luck!
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Try the ol "are you getting my texts" trick. Act like your not getting any of his texts, and he may call you to find out why.
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why you need to wait for him to call when you can call him if you really want since you said you had a nice conversation with him in the past.. though you should be happy he sents you sms or msgs.. maybe he was just shy talking to you since calling is much intimate than texting.. so what you need to do is to boost him up :) or maybe he's just busy to stay on the line for a talk..
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ok i'm doing this again because i cant seem to add a comment. when you get the chance ask him "what does he want out of you two if he wants a relationship?" look, dont go by the rules of the begining of relationship crap, just do what you think that will help you more to communicate properly with him...if all fails then grab him when his free and ask "what the hell is wrong with you?!" and give him a good shake and if you must add a slap.
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lets see a more stable approach, ummm i say you two should have a meeting...u know like in the movies,"meet me by the oak tree after school," or something like that.shy people like to be approached, they dont do the approaching (belive me i'm one of them) sit down and have a chat with him, tell him how you feel about the messaging and stuff. dont be afraid to start the relationship
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Tell him your mom cut off your texting plan and that if you open text messages you get hit with a huge overage charge.
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Maybe he already has a girlfriend and he can only text message you, in order to keep it quite and undiscovered. A phone conversation may not be possible, because of this.
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Many guys do not like to yakk on the phone like girls do. That may be the problem. I only knew one guy who liked to talk on the phone for long periods of time. It seemed to me that most just want to get to the point and be done with it.
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Shut off your cell phone tell him when he calls that I'd like to really get know you not just some mysterious writer. How are you going to get know him when he has time to think of what to write or ask someone with him what to write? I mean how easy is it not to mess up a conversation if you have long periods of time to think about everything you going to say.
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:) Try asking him that question like your asking about someone else but somehow through a clue in that you're talkin about him. If he doesn't clue in I don't know what's wrong with him haha.
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Ask him to call instead of texting. A radical idea, I know, but it may work.
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