If choosing one meant you could never have the other would you choose friendship or sex?
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mekare
ANSWERS: 16
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Sex. That was the first answer that popped into my mind and I can't really fathom my reasoning, other than thinking that sex can't really hurt me the same way friends can (and when I say me, I mean *me* - not that it is the same for everbody else). I suppose I am superficial that way.
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friendship
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I would choose friendship. You can buy a dildo, but you cannot buy a friend.
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Sex is so transitory and temporary. It's a fleeting moment of excitement, a few endorphines for the brain. To trade that for friendship, for suport through the hard times? To give up the laughtef and joy with friends? To give up having someone you trust and can twlk to that understands you and cares for you no matter how much you act like a big jerk? When youhave your whole life ahead of you, to put a brief physical thrill ahead of true friends seems like the most shortsighted thing to do.
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Tough one but i'll choose friendship.
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How can you not be friends with someone that you are having sex with? This would mean having sex with someone you don't like and how pleasurable could that be? I would have to chose friendship.
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friendship all the way!!!!!!!!!!
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Friendship. Vibrators come in handy and you can easily buy them, however friends you cant and need to keep hold of.
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Friendship is more solid and fills more needs than just sex. But people really couldn't survive without sex, so there's really no great answer here besides masturbating forever.
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Sex, friends always disappoint you in the end.
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Friendship. I tend to have sex wit most of my friends anyhow...
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I wouldn't choose, I'm happy as I am at the moment.
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well SEX, I have a few real good girl FRIENDS right now and the choice with them was FRIENDS, NOW I need one for sex :)
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Friendship...didn't even have to think about that one.
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Sex for me, friends are fickle and can hurt you. I limit my friends, those few that I do have are kept at arms length out of defence
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I would certainly choose sex because: 1) good sex brings you a deeper intimacy as friendship. A clue for this is that if you quit a relationship, you are often proposed "just to be friends". And with my partner I am not "friends", we are partner, this is much more than that and totally different. 2) There could be other possibilities to have contacts with people, even if they are not my friends. My definition of friends is rather restrictive, I do not have many of them. I think the question would allow to have many good aquaintances and it would be sufficient.
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