Some women need different stimulation than others. Oral sex often focuses more on the clitoris, and there are women that need that particular stimulation to experience full pleasure. As far as the guy 'not pleasing the girl', well, it takes two to tango. If a woman needs a different type of stimulation, it is up to HER to figure out what she needs and to talk to her partner. A partner does not know unless they are told.

True and False. In my late teens I didn't think it possible to orgasm from either of the two. I knew I could orgasm but I never figured out which one worked for me. Well, both actually work but its different for every female. Just as we all have different body shapes, we all have different "kittys" so to speak. Some females can not have direct stimulation on their clitoris, therefore oral sex is too intense and uncomfortable (extrememly ticklish) whereas sex can can be indirect stimulation of the clitoris and could be easier to orgasm from. Also, during sex a female can have another type of orgasm...a "g-spot" orgasm. Our g-spot is on the front wall of our vaginas about 1 inch inside and is like a small circular sponge when aroused. Sometimes, when triggered the right way, a female can "squirt" or experience female ejaculation. I dont see that happening with oral sex. Sorry, a bit of information I know. The trick is for every female to test herself out on her own and get comfortable with her body and to know her "soft spots" or how she can orgasm. I dont think its impossible for any woman to experience any orgasm during sex, she just needs to learn the exact rhythm, intensity, object, and frame-of-mind that will help her do that!

Many woman do not reach orgasm through intercourse. For some, everything needs to be just right. On the other hand, you may not be doing it right. No telling.

a few women I feel don't communicate well when it comes to a man trying to please her, lack of confidence/not wanting to criticise perhaps? I find that when you can both communicate well just about anything is possible, I have been lucky enough to be able to help women experience climax during intercourse and also using oral sex (one including a squirter - I'm not sure who was more shocked about that discovery)...they had trust in me, comfort level and I was patient and listened to what they told me aroused them. Girls you definately need to speak up to save guys fumbling around unsuccessfully and to help you have a much better experience at it. My two-penneth worth.

Yes. About 25% of women are physically incapable of having an orgasm from intercourse alone. That is not their fault - it is a biological reality! Unfortunately female orgasm was never necessary in order to reproduce, otherwise we'd all have them incredibly easily. Sometimes a women can learn, with experience, to have an orgasm. What speed to go at, what positions provide more stimulation, etc etc. I can get relatively close a lot of the time. Very very rarely, I can have an orgasm through intercourse (we're talking a handful of times in my life) but only in one particular positions and they were not such great orgasms anyway. Like a lot of women, I'd rather orgasm through other means, like oral. It is easier, faster and gives me better orgasms. It doesn't mean you aren't pleasing her at all. I consider my boyfriend a genius in bed, he is brilliant at oral and manual stimulation. But it isn't any easier for him to give me an orgasm during intercourse, despite the fact he's had girlfriends who could easily have multiple ones. It is just the way I am, and you should never make a girl feel like she needs to orgasm during intercourse to make you happy. That is why so many women fake.