ANSWERS: 4
  • Let this one go, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Desparation is not attractive. Plus I think he fancies men.
  • You've probably married your high school sweetheart in the mean time, but the only way to find out is to ask him out on a date. A good attitude would be "I'm attracted to you, I would like to spend more time with you to get to know you better; if you don't feel the same, then that's a pity, but I'll survive." Many men can be surprisingly shy when things move into the lovey-dovey zone. Good luck.
  • If a guy is seriously interested in you, he will make sure you know. Some women like to be assertive and ask men out, and something may develop.
  • It can tough for a guy to express his interest in each and every woman he's interested in because every situation is different. There may be circumstances that require discretion - e.g., a workplace romance. The bottom line is that he OUGHT to put himself out there and lay it on the line. If he's not interested enough to do that, it doesn't mean something is wrong, he may merely be "curious". It may also be a sign that he hasn't gotten in touch with his manhood yet and is still learning.

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