first make friends with her if your not already, tell her how you feel, and an unexpected gift doesn't hurt the situation

Be her friend, listen to her...really listen to her. Let her know you like her and want to be a part of her world.

When you mean expense do you mean money? Although money will help, it can only go so far. If you have a sense of humor and able to make the girl laugh then you're on the right track. A girl once told me that when I spoke to her that it was rare that a guy looked her right in the eyes.---------so do that also.

What really touches a girl's heart is concrete evidence that you were thinking of her when she was not around. Do you see her faorite candy bar while you're gassing up? Pick it up for her! Did she mention is passing that she loves picnics? Make a picnic for her the first nice day in Spring, or have one inside on a rainy day. You don't have to spend a bundle for the right girl. Just be thoughtful.

Win or buy?

Simply show sincere interest in her, but don't be pushy.

Be yourself!!! and make her feel like the most beautifull woman on the planet

Some rules: DON'T be pushy. DON'T rush into things, unless she hints it's okay. DON'T claim to be 'in love' with her after a month. DON'T ask if you can kiss her.. just do it. If she asks you to do something simple.. do it. Keep in mind: Girls aren't very sure what they feel all the time. If they ask you to wait, it means they have on-off feelings about you. They like when you do thoughtful, simple things. They like being reminded that they are number one in your life, whether you are 'together' or not.. if you get jealous that she isn't all that into you, DO NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, try making HER jealous by going for another girl. That sets you up to be ignored, blocked, slapped, yelled at, or left. I don't think that's your goal. If she goes with other guys, don't make this huge ordeal about it. More than likely, she's either testing waters, trying to cool off from YOU, or she just is simply not into you... and hinting you. Does she like flowers? Great! Don't buy her a bouquet. Buy her a couple. Take the things she says to heart. Don't ever think she's joking around when she says, "I don't like it when you..." If she asks for something, DO IT. Don't make empty promises, and DON'T set her up. Let her know she can depend on you: be on time, be accurate, use common sense, guys; just because you're ga-ga about a girl, doesn't mean you don't have a brain. I'm assuming she's pretty? If she doubts that out-loud, don't say something half-heartedly like, "Oh yes you ARE pretty!" Make something up that sounds romantic. Just... think before you speak, and put yourself into her shoes. And don't take too long at it, either. Let her know she can trust you. If she's telling you she had a terrible day, offer her guidance, don't just sit there talking to her on instant messanger; offer to take her out on your behalf, don't let her pay. Just remind her that life moves on even when the going gets tough. Write her letters, and GIVE THEM TO HER. Tell her your deepest secrets.

Get to know her first. find out what she likes and doesn't like. Be considerate, compassionate, be a friend, and don't push. Best part.. these don't cost a thing..but are priceless. (Yeah..I know..I sound like a Mastercard (or whichever) commercial).