If your boyfriend,girlfriend,husband or wife tells you they love you why would they cheat on you?
by 
Jordan
ANSWERS: 8
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Because they're not telling the truth. You don't hurt the person you love.
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Because they dont actually love you in the way you love them. They love you in a self serving egotistical way that is only useful if they receive all the benefits and none of the downfalls of a relationship. In their mind, its love. In reality, it is the exact opposite. They lack empathy and compassion for the person they supposedly "love", and dont have the decency to leave the person that they are hurting. Cheating is a manifestation of their selfishness.
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Cheating is not Love
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Because they are to immature to settle down with one. They love you in a compassionate way, somewhat like you do with a family member. Your stable, & predictable but they hunt & seek the excitement of the unknown. They love you as the person you are but they love themselves more & crave the hunt & catch of the cheating game. They are selfish
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because there are a lot of temptations in this world that only few people passed it with flying colors... i don't really believe that people who done cheating doenst really love the person they are with.. its just that.. they are weak people when it comes to temptation though if they love you strongly, they will use it to succeed from it.. cheaters are weak people not monsters though..
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Because they are self-centered.
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Because people are not perfect. You can love someone and make a mistake. You can love someone for years, not realise how much, slip up with an infatuation that comes your way. The world is very grey. Not much is black and white. Usually you hurt the people you love the most - because they are the ones closest to you and therefore most easily hurt by an action/mistake/whatever.
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I would say there are two reasons. One, is that people make mistakes. I could see how under certain circumstances, someone might get so lonely that they could be convinced to cheat on their partner. Maybe if it was a long distance relationship or one of the people would be gone for a long time for one reason or another. Situations like that are often forgivable. Cheating is never GOOD or right, but under certain circumstances, I would understand it. No one is perfect and not everyone can resist every temptation forever. The other reason, is that they were not being truthful in the first place. A person cheats once, and that could be an honest mistake, a weak moment. Someone cheats twice, three times, more...that's different. Someone that really didn't mean to hurt the other person wouldn't do it more than ONCE, and at that, they would feel terrible about it. The person that just cheats and cheats is obviously someone who lies about what they feel for you and what they do behind your back and probably other things as well, and those people are not worth anyone else's time or affection.
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