No - not if he say's he is ready to settledown - I'd be fired up to tell the truth

Hell, I'm single and I don't go to those places. That sounds like some oats that need to be sown.

You're perfectly justified. Going to strip clubs suggests that he's willing to view women as "meat", in a way - just something to get pleasure from and not give anything back to. Without knowing this guy, I'd suggest you think a LOT harder about whether you want to marry him if he thinks this way about women - his disrespect for women in that sense would make me wonder how much respect he had for me.

No, you are not wrong to object, and your feelings on the matter should not be dismissed or invalidated (even by yourself). The fact of the matter is that your feelings and opinion on it are what they are, and that needs to be taken into consideration by the man who is going to be your life partner. If he dismisses your feelings on this, the underlying message is, "What I want to do is more important to me than how you feel about it." Think about it...is that a message you want to stay silent about? Speak up, talk to him, and tell him how you feel and what you think.

I don't think you're wrong to object, but I also don't think it's a big deal. Naked women...whatever. They're in movies, on TV...it's not like the man isn't ever going to see another naked women aside from you ever again and it's probably better if he feels like he doesn't have to lie about doing things like this. I'd let him have his fun as long as he keeps his hands to himself. And that last sentence was not sexual.

Hes a guy and guys are visual. Maybe you two could work out a deal.. that he does not visit these places so frequently-they become costly. Plus why does he need to go so often? Is it just becuase the other guys are going and its there hang out; guy time? I would tell him how your feeling about this - if he blows you off is it really worth being unhappy?

No, you're not. You need to put a stop to this right away. Especially if it bothers you. And I can tell you those girls may start out in g-strings and tassels but at the end of the night they're naked on his lap. You really need to worry of he goes alone because that's usally when they're trolling for something more and don't want anyone to know. And if he's wanting to step it up a notch and involve his friends at an all nude you've got trouble brewing. Having the guys around just ups the ante for really stupid stuff. You need to sit him down and tell him it's me or it's them not both. Because I can tell you right now he sees you the same way he sees them, as meat to be consumed as he pleases. And if you put up with this he's going to push it even further. Hate to break it to you but guys who do this are more,not less, likely to cheat because after all you gave him permission to be with them. Plus he's going outside of the relationship for sexual gratification with live women he pays with money that should be going to support the two of you. And these women do sleep with their clients, it's how they make the majority of their money. And I should know, I had one call my house looking for her best client. So, please, save yourself the heart ache later one and draw that line in the sand. If he really loves you he'll stop going. And if he doesn't then you need to find some one who will. You deserve so much better then to be sitting at home wondering what's going on behind your back.

make your place, like strip club.