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Good sex, bad conversation.
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Not a really good idea for later years mainly for the older one.
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Why not give it a try and see how you get on, dont give up on it just because it might not work. Good Luck.
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Nobody can tell you who you will and will not like, who you will and will not get a long or make it work with. Make sure, as with any relationship, you examine the reasons you are in the relationship and make sure you keep yourself happy above all else. I'm sure you've already examined the many possibilities of outcomes, but you did just start dating the guy, take it easy and enjoy the light heartedness that comes along with the begining
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Are you saying that he's 24 years older than you are?
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Age is not the most important thing in a relationship. If there's something about him you find special, then he may be the one for you, so why not give it a go. The only 'but' I'd add is this. Remember that age difference can cause pain and sorrow in later life. When you're 65 and retiring, he will be nearly 90, and may need hospitalisation, or may already be dead. I know this can happen at any time of life, but it is more likely to happen as he gets older. Other than that it is how you get on together, what you share, that is important. These things will see you through rough patches. I hope you choose wisely and never regret your choice.
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At 21, you were an adult. You can make your own decisions as to who to date. If you get along, its your choice. She isn't the one dating him - you are.
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Yeah he's quite a bit older. If it works, it works, but I'm not sure it's a good idea given your situation. Even if you stayed together, the baby would probably never truly be his, as he'll always have looked at it as his 'girlfriend's baby' in the beginning. Also, It's important not to give your child the impression that he isn't enough by seeking a man again.
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I don't think this would be a very wise decision. This man will be slowing down real soon. You are only 23 yrs. old, and you have a lot of life in you. There is alot of things that I'm sure you would love to do. Please get with someone closer to your age. You need to enjoy life to the fullest. A 47 yr.old man has had plenty of experiences, and it will be very dificult to stay on his level with him. He is more settled in his ways; this could cause some major conflictions. Hope this is helpful.
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Unless you are still living at home and depending on your parents for the bulk or all of your financial support it is none of their business who you choose to date. I went through the same bullshit as you. I was 46 last year when I started dating my 23 y/o girlfriend. Her mom l;oved me instantly and knew I only had her daughter's best interests at heart and that I truly loved her. Her dad was the asshole who saw me as either a dirty old pervert who was just out to get some hot sex off someone who could be my daughter or someone who had some sort of mental deficency that made it impossible for me to relate to women my own age. He was wrong on both counts and I thought the events of the next 6 months would prove just how wrong he was about me but he was just a dumb ass over protective dad who couldn't accept the fact his daughter was a woman now and didn't need him to protect her anymore. You see a month after we began dating she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer which started in the uterus and quickly spread throughout her body. She hid that from me until almost the very end when she couldn't take lying to me anymore and ran back home to her parents who live almost 6 hours away from me because she knew she was dying and couldn't face telling me. When I found out I was there every single weekend holding her hand taking care of her doing things for her that she could no longer do herself such as dressing herself and helping her to walk etc. I even took off so much time from work during that time I almost got fired from my job but I loved her and had no regrets about doing what I did. None of that mattered to her dad though and to this day he still treats me like crap and his daughter has been dead for almost 9 months now. Sweetheart if you love this man and can see a good future together with him them f**k what your parents think. You are an adult and as one you have a right to live your own life. Life is too short to be concerned with what others will think about your relationship or who will or won't like it. Be happy and be good to each other for you never know when one of you will be called back hom to God and then it will be too late.
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