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ashymama
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I look down on all kids cuz, you know, they're short. But yes, I think having children before getting married is unwise.
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Explain your question. it makes no sense.
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I don't think its ideal, especially if the parents are young and it interferes with their education. Its certainly considered a societal taboo and I think it will continue to be so for quite some time.
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Only idiots.
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Um, I wouldn't be able to do it myself ... I mean, I would if that's what came about in my life, but I wouldn't plan it. I'm not that independent or secure; I would need a husband to have a whole family. But, that's me. I don't look down on others for that. They understand their lives, I understand mine.
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Thanks for the explanation. I am 63 and yes i believe a couple should be married before having children. this is a moral question and my idea was established back in the 60s. i still believe this is true. It is a whole new generation and a new way of thinking. to me, this makes no difference. children should not be born out of wedlock. there are way too many children, today, that do not even know their father. this is setting a very bad example for future generations. Its like having free sex and if the woman becomes pregnant, so what? its just a sign of the times. This is one major underlying cause of the increase in domestic violence. parents having children, never been married, and the fight begins over custody. this also occurs in married people, but far less a percentage. Once again, its the children that suffer. they will follow the examples given by their mother or father. being born out of wedlock, most of the time, will continued from one generation to another. Call me old, call me outdated, but call me right. peoples bodies do not change, its their morals.
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I am going to assume you mean having kids before you are married. I don't think it is an ideal situation; but, I don't judge them negatively just because of that.
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