ANSWERS: 23
  • Yes. Anything that is inappropiate to do w/the opposite sex (hand holding, hugging, kissing, etc) that wouldn't happen if your spouse / signifigant other was around would, to me, be considered cheating.
  • simply -- probably.. But really it all depends on the intentions and of all involved. If my wife kissed another guy I wouldnt care, because our relationship is SO more than "kissing" however if she started to confide/trust in someonelse, that would worry me..
  • yes and if no one saw you when you did,then do not reveal it to anyone.it can ruin your present relationship.you may want to consider carefully whom you would rather be with.cheating is bad,very bad.
  • If your partner kissed someone else romantically, how would you feel? Would you feel betrayed? Because then its cheating, but even if you didnt, your partner would. Are you hiding this from your partner? If you are ask yourself why.
  • everyone has their own views on this, but I feel like it is cheating. The fact that its not just a peck or quick smooch of hello, its cheating in my eyes. I would not want my partner doing it.
  • If you are in an exclusive relationship, its cheating for you to have such contact with someone else.
  • Each couple has their own agreement as to what is cheeting or not. Some couples don't even have friends of the opposite sex while others care more about emotional cheating than physical. It's really what you set up in the beginning. Every couple is different. Switching the roles to determine how you would feel if they did what you did doesn't necessisarily determine cheating as most people think, because one partner might be hurt over something another wouldn't. I think as long as you're honest immediately after or about having feelings of wanting to kiss someone else and talk about it before anything happens, the relationship can possibly survive, because you're giving that person respect by speaking your truth.
  • It probably is, butnot in my eyes; call me a cheating sh*t head.
  • I'd say yes !! It is cheating !! I look at it this way. I would'nt do anything that I would'nt want my wife to do.
  • Yes, though it's not worth beating yourself up about. And he didn't take it from you as it sounds like you consented. Just be a little more aware in future and don't loose sleep over it.
  • sorry, butyes, although it might be a little more forgiveable than say sleeping with someone else.
  • It is only really cheating if you get found out.
  • My opinion on this is very straight forward. Someone who kisses another person when they are already in a relationship is cheating. A kiss is so intimate, that it is much more hurtful to the person you have cheated on. Dont get me wrong, If a person cheats by sleeping with another it is very wrong too.Although a kiss is so intimate, that the betrayal to the other person is uncomparable. If my girlfriend kissed another guy I would take it the same way as if she would have slept with somebody. Everyone should be able to forgive someone who cheats, only when this person has realised that they have made a genuine mistake. Second chances are not an option, and much work is needed to regain this trust. If the love is strong in the relationship nothing can interfere completely. If this person doesnt see what they have done wrong, then thats when forgiveness is not an option.
  • Yes it is. It is the consequences of allowing yourself to be in that position so that it could happen. You could have avoided the person's company or made sure you were someplace it wouldn't happen or you could have not had so much to drink. The responsibility was yours and you did something that I'm sure your Boyfriend would consider cheating. If it's not something you would do openly in front of him and tell him about, if it's something that pricks your conscience, then it's cheating.
  • Two big points here: 1. Sober or not, it makes no difference. You're responsible for your actions. Crying drunk doesn't keep you out of trouble and it doesn't keep you out of jail. 2. Even if the guy acted fast, you're still in charge of your body. You can pull away, admonish him or walk away. If you returned the kiss, it was mutual. That said, a kiss is a kiss. They happen. It's really up to you and your boyfriend as to what's considered cheating. It's probably no big deal but I wouldn't make a habit of it. If you run in similar circles as this guy, I'd suggest you mention it to your boyfriend, because chances are he'll find out. Just tell him it was a momentary thing that didn't mean anything.
  • yup. **kisses**
  • Yes it is cheating!!
  • Hmmmmmm, yes.
  • defenitly
  • uh...duh...
  • it really depends on what kind of relationship that ur in with that person. if its just a friends relationship then it really doesnt matter, but if you go with a person and u kiss someone else then that could be considered cheating.
  • Yes... since you said "relationship" and no just dating casually.

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