I'm looking for some ideas on places or methods to meet men of substance (not just looking for a one night stand) for potential lovers. any suggestions?
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How about on here? lol I met my husband on a blind date. You never know where you'll find Mr. Right. Think of a guy that you would be attracted to and then hang out in the places you are likely to find that kind of guy. For myself if I were in the market I'd go to a church singles group or something like that.
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I think if you take a class or join a volunteer group, you might meet some very nice like minded people. go to www.meetup.com and see if there are any social groups in your part of the world that interest you http://www.meetup.com/cities/us/or/portland/
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Swimming club? Drama club? Indoor climbing gym? Gym? Book club? Writing club? Basically, I'd get involved socially in something you enjoy - like swimming, reading, writing, acting, etc. etc. etc. You will meet people, and then friends of people and so on. AND, you'll already have at least one shared interest!
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I've not been searching for years. I have often thought it would be extremely hard to find another good man. I got lucky as I met mine in high school 20+ years ago. But, I would imagine that the best places to find a significant other is in the places you least expect. Being involved socially is a really good start, i.e. exercise classes, book club...the key would be places that you actually have to interact with others not just in a room with other people. You might be surprised at the churches. So many people are just lost soles & don't really know what they believe in.
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Why do you need to ask people you don't know where to meet men? Men are everywhere! We don't hide just when you walk by, we're honking our horns at you, waving, bagging your groceries, winning your lawsuit, treating your syphilis, serving you drinks. There are few places where you CAN'T find a man, like female bathrooms, locker rooms and bridal shows! We're honking our horns to serve you better!
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