Thank you for sharing. Is there some question you want to ask? (I did not down rate you, that was already there when I gave my answer)

i'm feeling really depressed about it all, i feel he no longer fancies me. I love him and want to spend my life with him, but sex is important and we seem so uncompatible, he cant even talk about stuff - i always end up have a one way convo with myself. I dont want to waste me time, but he says he loves me... i know you cant change someone so should i just end things?

Ummm.. Try kickin things up a notch like get hooker looking slutty clothes and seduce him. Put a blind fold on him... Just make things spicy (=

Have you tried in the morning? ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the temporary storage capacity of your brain is getting full. This is why it's so important to get at least 8 hours of sleep, or 10 hours if under the age of 30 for males and 24 for females. That's when you reach full maturity. At night, during that period of time between when you go to sleep and start dreaming, your brain's ability to absorb data is shut down and everything in temporary storage is transferred to permanent storage through the creation of chemical bonds, and synaptic connectors, as needed. While you are dreaming, the data is being categorized. At night, your body washes out all the lactic acid that has built up in your muscles during the day, replacing it with oxygen. At night, your immune system goes into limited standby mode to regenerate and repair injuries, such as sore and strained muscles. At night, prior to the ages of full maturity, all growth and development takes place. Guys, this means that until age 30, if you are not getting the proper amount of sleep, you are not going to reach your full potential length with your tally whacker. That might be useful in the morning. And yes, that contributes to a guy’s woody. When you wake up, provided you got a proper amount of sleep, your body and your brain are refreshed and ready for the day's activities, so why not start out with a little morning exercise before getting out of bed? I hope this answers your question. Now, for you night workers, the reason we have so many health problems is that we don't sleep under conditions that properly simulates night time. According to the AMA, you have to sleep in a room that is absolutely dark. Any light prevents the brain from entering into night time mode, triggering all the other processes. The room needs to be cool, as the top of the head puts off a lot of heat while transferring the data. Not doing this creates a gradual and life shorting condition. I know, as I sit in a nursing home with a bad heart. ??????????????? One final note When I was younger, and my heart worker better, I was a morning love maker. My wife loved it, except for one problem. It was 4 AM and I was still sleeping, so I woke up in the morning with no memory of it. I got all the work and she got all the fun.