Were you popular in school or a loner, and how did that make you feel?
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ANSWERS: 19
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I was pretty much a loner, which was the way I wanted it. I was not stuck up or anything..just rather stay to myself. I think I probably spent most of my preteen and teen years in a state of depresson.
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I was a horrible 'wallflower'. Painfully shy and had two friends that were the same way, (of course.) We were the geeks! It didn't feel too good most days, that's why I changed my attitude and "blossomed"! There's no stopping me now!
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I was a weirdo...which meant I wasn't in the "popular " grp or the IN grp or the NERD group. I was relatively popular with the weirdos & I think we had fun & could get away with alot. We mostly made fun of all the other grps. None of that matters a whit once you're out of hs.
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I was the popular girl, but for the right reasons like I was generally nice to everyone and outgoing. Not because I slept with all the guys and had money. I don't know what it is like on the other side, but I never would knock someone because of it. =)
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I am a bit of a loner by choice more than anything. I feel... fine about it. I prefer to get my social interaction outside of school, I hate all the 'bitchy talk', 'he said she said' and the fact that most people's lives seem to be revolved around 'getting off' with each other.
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I was a bit of an all rounder i guess. I hated all the gossip queens so tended to stay away from that group. I was never a fan of being part of one clique... I played, basketball, was involved in music....so i could just in and out of different groups with ease. I liked to be on my own too which is why i spent quite a bit of time in the library in school. In an all girls school popularity was akin to success... So many girls strived to be the most popular and urgh i think it destroyed some girls
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i am kind of a loner as well, well before in my early days in seconday school i was quite popular *with the boys* don't get my wrong i'm not gay...-.- but i was too shy to talk to the girls. but when we were starting to grow up many of my close friends started to talk to girls and hanging out of with em and i started to be alone... now when i try talking to them they think i'm a bit wierd. but yeah i'm going to college in about 5 months so i'm hoping to regain my life
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I dunno I was just me I wasnt really popular or a loner. I got along with just about everyone.
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I would do a lot of clowning around in school but in reality I only had a few friends. I felt pretty secure and never experienced loneliness. With the aid of the internet, I have tracked down and renewed some of my old friendships from school. We get together every 3 months and spend an evening in a restaurant.
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well im still in secondary skool and i am 2 popular dats becuz wen i 1st started skool it woz like my goal and wen i started gettin attention frm boiz and gurls i liked it at first. but den it got out of hand i hav so much fwends dat u dn't no who your tru frends r and i am a bit of a gossiper but im not a bully and if i could go back in time id'e probrably keep 2 myself cuz being cool aint all dat
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I was somewhat of a loner but that was mostly because I wouldn't commit to any certain group. I got along with just about everybody, but I really only had four or five people that I would consider actual friends.
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I was popular but like Fun, for the right reasons. I befriended people that no one wanted to have anything to do with, was as nice as I could be to everyone, but I wasn't fake at the same time. I care about people, and I think that showed. Of course not EVERYONE like me, but I was in the in crowd, until I moved to Virginia...Then I was a loner, and I prefered it that way, I was pissed that I had moved, and I just didn't click with anyone my age. All my friends were 3-5 years older than me and out of high school, and thats the way that I wanted it. There were a few people that I ate lunch with, but I never really hung out with anyone from school.
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I was popular. I wasn't on any sports teams or anything but I was friends with everybody. The rich kids, poor kids, weird kids, smart kids and the farmers, I was one of the farmer kids. My brother and I are 10 months apart so he was 1 year ahead of me in school so I automatically had a crap load of friends my Freshman year. I always felt bad for the kids sittin by themselves at lunch so I would either invite them to sit with me and my friends or go sit with them. No one should have to eat lunch alone.
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i barley made a dent. i'm just glad i made it out alive.
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I was pretty much a loner. My only friends were a guy I knew since kindergarten that everyone assumed was gay and 4 very hot and very popular girls who treated me like their little brother. No one dareeed pick on me or say anything negative to me when they were around.
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I was a bit of an outcast, a square peg in a round hole. But I had my friends. Later on, in my senior year I came out of my shell a little bit and started making more friends and to my surprise I found out the people that didn't know me thought I would be mean. To their surprise, I wasn't. That amused me.
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I never went to school in America so I was safe from what those kids have to go through!
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The main problem for us is that ours are "convicted" criminals. People that should be in prison by law. I doubt you can have it as bad as here as everyone is armed in the US, just in case the government gets out of hand. Still, we'll see what happens. Personally I'd vote it to make italy the 53rd state, come get it before it all goes to the dogs. ****oops this was meant to be a comment!****
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I was neither. However I had my own circle of friends and among them I was one of the popular persons.
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