Find the nearest mirror: Work on your confidence by singing "I'm to Sexy" I'm to sexy for my shirt. I'm to sexy for my car. I'm to sexy for my hat----What do ya think about that. Then you look closer in the mirror and hope that you have some nice lucious lips. Go ahead and pucker up and pretend you're standing in a police line up. Turn to the left, to the right and back to the left. If there full then you're in luck. If paper thin, then immediately seek medical assistance. Now it's time for the tonque. When you stick it out and it falls beyond the chin then you are in Gene Simmons territory. Remember-- size matters. Kissing, (especially french) is an art. It requires just the right amount of moisture. Refrain from drooling. Refrain from slurping noises. Draw your mate in by gentle probing. It's all about the passion. When the passion is intense then all inhibitions will be released. kissing is the most intimate. Thats why Julia Roberts did'nt allow Richard Gere to kiss her in "Pretty Women" Well almost.

Sucking on tomatoes always worked for me. If the tomato is big enough you can get some tounge in as well.

Practice Practice Practice!

[I'm using "he" for a third person here because it's the standard English default--add the "s" mentally if you prefer kissing girls.] As jenniferprofitt said, practice! That's no joke. As with most disciplines, the best way to learn is to find someone who's good at it and get him to teach you. As with all things sensual, pay as much attention to technique as you can (without getting distracted from the kiss itself). Think about how the other person uses his tongue, what parts of your mouth he gives attention to, and whether he pauses periodically or just keep going. The next best thing to practicing with one good kisser (or possibly as good) is to kiss a lot of different people and see what works or doesn't work. It's not slutty when it's in the name of science! ; ) Failing that, here are some general tips: - Keep lip moisture to a medium. If your lips are dry, lick them. (If his lips are dry, lick them too, if he's patient enough to let you.) If yours are too wet, take a minute to kiss his cheek, ear, neck, etc. and then come back to his lips. If his are too wet, you can cup his face in your hands and surreptitiously dab at the excess with your thumbs. - Pay attention, of course. If he keeps pushing forward, he's looking for a deeper or more continuous kiss. You can tease a little bit by pulling away, but make sure it's only teasing and not frustrating by coming back and giving him what he wants eventually. If he's pulling away, let him catch his breath. - Explore. When you focus on such a small area as the mouth, you notice the variety of the things you can do with it. Pick a lip and nibble or suck on it (gently! Both of those can hurt if done too much.) Spend some time lightly licking (see moisture note) and dotting kisses on the surface of his lips before going back to a deep kiss; variety excites the nerves more, and if you keep it up long enough, he'll be longing for more. - Take it slow. Unless this is an "I want to screw you right now" or "I haven't seen you in a year and boy did I miss you" kiss, you've probably got some time on your hands. Relax, and enjoy yourself. If you love what you're doing, it'll show.

Kissing is a couple thing, where two intervene. No matter how much you practice alone or with a particular he or she, everything will change when the other person changes. In other words, to be a good kisser you have to be emphatic, and be willing to adapt yourself to your couple. In short, a good kisser is one who takes the time and attitude to complement his/her partner. One who is not thinking about himself but also in his better half.

By taking me to the movies.

PRACTICE!

The answer lies in use of your tongue. Girls,if he won't use his, tease him with yours, as soon as he responds with his tongue, withdraw your own, only letting him find it briefly. Boys, remember it isn't just the back of the teeth you can feel, pull back just slightly to give your tongue room, then move it around the front of her teeth, can be very sensuos, and she will come back for more.

What is a good kiss? There is no way to state whether you are a good kisser or not, everyone is different! The answer that was given before maybe right in its own way but I dont really think you can find a good kisser to teach you. I think there is one kiss that will stand out and you will remember for the rest of your life. If you can remember what that felt like then it might give that little spark but just remember everyone is different and no one has the same way of kissing. Hope this helps. Rach

become a better person...everything else will fall into place.

someone told me to become a better kisser practice with knotting a cherry stem using your tounge in your mouth.

Kissing is all about passion. If you are passionate about what you are doing, believe me you are a better kisser. Just make sure that you make that person feel as comfortable as yourself want to be. Enjoy Kissing.

A friend of mine says that openning a starburst with your mouth is good practice. I'm not sure if it's true though.

I assume from the question that someone has complained about his or her kissing. If so, I would suggest getting feedback. It's not easy for someone to express what's good or bad about the kisses they're getting. Other than "too rough" or "too limp" you may not get much to go on. It helps if you really enjoy kissing. It's one of the great experiences that life has to offer. You are enveloped in the presence of your lover, her scent, her breath, her warmth, her taste, the softness of her mouth and tongue. It could be more intimate than sex because there is no goal in kissing. It's pure pleasure. In order to lose yourself in kissing you have to relax. It's like floating on your back. If you can relax and drift in a dreamlike state, floating is very pleasurable. If you are anxious about sinking it's no fun. The trick is to be fully present in the moment and lose yourself. Think about nothing except how lucky you are to be in the presence of your lover, sharing such amazing pleasure. If you can be fully in the moment you won't be distracted with thoughts about what the kisses are leading to or how you are performing. Vernillat's suggestion to suck tomatoes is a good idea because kissing is similar to eating if you can really savor an exquisite food. Kissing is physical communication. For me, the best kind of kissing is soft and tender because you are in touch with your lover, showing her what you like. At the same time, you are getting gentle signals from her. The movie "The Man in the Moon" with Reese Witherspoon actually has some useful tips about kissing.

Swallow your spit...there's nothing worse than kissing someone with a mouthful of spit! It's pretty much common sense after that, as in...don't shove your tongue down their throat or bite their lip too hard, etc.

flexibilty

Honestly, by becoming more sensitive to the response and reactions of the person you are kissing. Not everyone enjoys being kissed in the same way. They may enjoy one approach one day, and another the other day. Sometimes I like tender kisses; other times I like strong, passionate, urgent ones. Practice helps, but the #1 thing you need to do is become aware of, and responsive to, the response and reactions of the person you are kissing.

There is no instruction manual or HOW-TO on kissing. Whoever gives one is just explaining his or her experience which may not hold true for most people. Remember, not two people are the same, and hence the way two people kiss or should kiss cannot be related either. The best thing you can do is observe how your partner reacts, responds to a kiss and let your body, brain take over from there. Ofcourse, practice is the key.

who are you trying to impress? your dog? your aunty? You need more practic(s)e. In the end you'll probably do your best when the person you are kissing is drunk..

less is better...mouth less open with less tongue...not to much slobber but just enough,when u kiss like i just said it all equals out and even if it starts to get to juicy then u can back off easily into a closed mouth kiss where u can swallow then start over...works everytime...try it with the top part of your hand if you dont believe me... o man....u really did it...lol

Too be Perfectly honest i think its on your own terms on kissing everybody has their own technique... Everybody has their own and we will all find someone that dont like the way you kiss or they will love it and wont forget about it.... You can't just ask half of the world that has computers how to kiss to be perfectly honest pick your own technique and not use others yeah there is a kiss that will keep people on their toes but why use someone else's techniques cause then your not an individual...We are all different and we shouldnt satrt to become like each other just through kissing.

take the chew out of your mouth.

Practice, keep practicing.

Kissing is over-rated, just be a nice, decent person.

A simple but true answer is: PRACTICE.

kiss more people and u will get better adventuly and put your hart into it

I agree, practice make perfect. You must learn your kissing partner as well. Great kissing is all about the moment. Learn to heighten the moment with emotion and anticipation and good kissing will naturally follow. Here's a good story about how better kissing improved this person's relationship dramatically and how they did it. Kissing can really bring two people closer together. http://hubpages.com/hub/How-to-Be-a-Better-Kisser