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  • Sounds like you've been hitting on a lot of girls. Maybe you're coming on too strong.
  • Either you come off as annoying, desperate or have really bad-------------------------------breath. tic tac anyone?
  • You might be looking at the wrong type of girls. A lot of guys--and especially teenagers--are unable to grasp the concept that they aren't innately entitled to date supermodels. They fantasize and chase after girls with perfect bodies, beautiful faces, and terrible personalities, and can't understand why they are constantly rejected. Or your approach may be bad. Lots of girls will immediately reject someone they don't know who flirts with them. Work on finding girls with interests similar to yours, and letting them get to know you before you hit on them. You might try joining a sports team, religious group, or group activity like a theater or musical group--these are great places to get to know lots of pretty girls.
  • Watch the film 'How to lose a man in 10 days'. It sums up most of the things people do to drive away their loved ones.
  • I don't think there's anything wrong with you or with what you're doing as long as you know how to respect other people. You should learn to like or love yourself first before you get into a relationship. I believe that in terms of love, it will come to you if its time. Live the life by concentrating first on your assets or talents, study well if you're still in school and focus on your work if you're already working. Your love or special someone will come to you at the unexpected time and place so always look and feel good.You should not be too hard on yourself.
  • You know, you may be wasting your time doing what youre doing. Not to sound mean or anything but it sounds like youre fixed on the quantity of women you approach instead of the quality of your approach. Look, I've been around the world enough to theorize, with my cultural experience, that women, generally, do not like the aggressive or quick approach where the man invests little of his time to make his signature approach. When he tries to "mack" his way into a date with her. They, not all women, tend to be more willing if you DONT lay your cards down all at once. Show her that you really are interested in her and want to get to know her. Show her that you ARE a man and that you respect her and have compassion and, more importantly, time for her. At the same time, it may not even be you. It may be bad luck or bad coincidences (such as approaching girls with weird taste). Also, girls sometimes just like to say, "No!" just because they can. Or they'll say no to impress her friends or to see what else you can come up with or play hard to get. I dont really know how youre doing what youre doing but have patience and respect while youre doing it.
  • Being needy is a turn off..May thats your porblem
  • The mating game is fraught with difficulties and perils. The rules of attraction vary from individual to individual, and you would be better served by asking this question of someone who knows you well. Do not automatically assume the problem lies with you. It may have something to do with the type of girl you approach. Ultimately, like all of life's challenges, you have to persevere to get what you want.
  • If you stop worrying about girls and get a LIFE, girls might respect you a little more.
  • It sounds, like some of the other answers have said, that you are coming onto a lot of different girls. This in itself is pretty off-putting- someone who asks out every girl they meet can come across as a bit of a creep, or just plain desperate. Also the more you get rejected, if other girls are aware of the rejection might begin to think "Well, if all the other girls rejected him maybe there IS something wrong with him.." This might be unfair, but it seems to me that the solution is just to plain slow it down a bit. Nobody wants to date a guy who asks her out just because she's female and single, she wants to feel like you asked her out because you really like HER, and if she knows she's the eighth girl you've asked out that week, she's not going to feel that. So stop asking for a while, get chatting to the girls you like, be their friends, listen to them, get to know them and resist the urge to jump in there and ask for a date. If you behave like a friend, a decent guy, and, dare I say it, a gentleman- the chances are they will respect you far more- then, if you still feel you'd like to take it further, go for it, and ask. If she refuses, don't get too cut up about it, and don't stop being her friend (everyone will assume you're only ever after one thing, which might be true but no need to advertise the fact!!) Who knows, you may find at some point one of your newfound girl friends even asks YOU out.
  • Maybe it's the focusing on getting girls.though i can not speak for all women, many women do not like to be hit apon. it leaves them with the thought that that man has also hit on other women, and does this often. Many women in my feelings are waiting for just that right man to come into there lives. the one meant for them, and will not put up with anyone else. perhaps if you would like to find not only a women, but your perfect match, just living your life right might be the best thing to do. if you would really like to connect with her quicker and happyer, try living your life treating women as individuals, friends. without flirting or coming on but just being a pal to others. the more you refuse to accept your inner emotions to be treated less then golden and worthy of the kind of love and respect it deserves, the faster you will reach your goal . good luck!
  • If you're asking a lot of girls maybe they take it as you just wanting to start dating rather then because you actually care about them. Also, you may not be taking a relational approach. If you're trying to make it about dating/courting without starting out simply as a friend to them, what are they going to assume your intentions are? I recognize with guys that a lot of it is physically-focused and with girls it's more emotionally-focused. You may be trying to go after girls for physical reasons rather then because you care about them, and as such, they're probably smart enough to figure that out. Sounds like you might be making it a bit obvious. Hope that helps.
  • Life is full of surprises, Its like the old song by 38 special Hold on Loosely, sometimes you can try too hard, try friendship first and see what happens.
  • Try looking for a girl in the center. (Hey,just an idea.)
  • If you're asking out a lot of girls in the same circle (the same social group, class, club, etc.), they will find out that you have asked out others too. Girls don't like to feel like they were number 27 out of 30, they want to feel that they were chosen for a reason. A reason other than that they are decent looking and seem nice enough and are single. Also, get to know the girl a little bit, but not so much that she's your buddy. Also, don't tell her anything that might scare her. If you have anything heavy to share, hold it off until trust has developed. For example, if you're 40 years old and a virgin who plans to have a dozen kids, that's scary. That can put the image of a non-stop pounding p*nis in her mind that would scare her. Pay for things without becoming a sucker. (don't pay her rent). If you're attracted to a girl in school who forgot her money but wants a soda, that's a nice time to step in. Practice good grooming and hygiene and pay attention to how you dress. That doesn't mean that you should copy whoever is the trendsetter of the week. Find a style that suits you. But I think the most important thing is not to become (or show) that you are desperate and NOT to ask out different girls who know each other. Sometimes if she says no at first, you can try asking at a later time after she knows you a little bit better. I've known different guys who were in your shoes and they eventually figured out what worked themselves after many failed attempts. Not everyone is going to have broad appeal, hey, we can't all be Brad Pitt, but really, you only need one girl to have that really good experience with to turn your luck around.
  • Try a different approach
  • The samme is happening to me. I read a study that says that 60% of the students that entered in the university never had a date! And then I noticed that most of the prostitute´s clients are persons that don´t have luck with women. So you know...you aren´t a novity, the world was being as this since always that´s why prostitution is the oldest profession the world. I just think positive, at least with prostitutes they have dream bodies and never get old (because there are always news ones). I use the money I received from the Christmas and aniversary to go to the "pros". Yep...it´s sad but I was 23 years old and I was mentally unstable do to being rejected. Does going to a psicologist solves the problem? NO! But at least I spend the money for him in a "pro". Know I see the things with other eyes...then I so that "hey: afterall they weren´t nothing of this world!" "so it was for this I was suffering?". Belive me...between get suicidal or mad just try a beautiful "pro" after being rejected you will see...it will open my eyes. I don´t know what love is, but I know what a woman is. The "pros" saved my mind and life. It´s sad that I fixed my sadness with another person sadness (needing money for life). In fact once a woman liked me because I had a professional future (being a physiotherapist), so they only like me for money. So what is a difference of a woman like that and a "pro" ? Anyway, why criyng for only kissies and huggs, in the end what you get of a relationship is discussions, love/hate, discussion..bla bla...only for kissies and huggs? Get a "pro" until you find someone.
  • ask the girls that rejected you.. they know more than we do.
  • You're trying. That's what you're doing wrong. Stop trying, and the results will be fruitful. Trust me.
  • you might be rushing into it too fast...make sure she wants you back before you ask to be with her.
  • my god thats my life in a nutshell. seriosly dude, i feel for you. trying not being sexist here but... women eh?
  • If they sense you're a desperate heat seeking missle they'll reject you. That and protruding nose hair.........
  • Stop talking about yourself so much. Girls need someone to listen to them, they will appreciate you more and probably let you get some action if you are a good listener.
  • being desperate?!

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